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Hi guys, I came out of a 20 year marriage last year. I’ve since been dating a lot (probably not as much as some guys on here). For context I’m 48, 6’4 in great shape, with nice hair etc. I’ve found I have been really successful in dating, mainly OLD but a couple of in person ones too. I find...

Agree with this, reiterates a lot of stuff that’s already been covered by others. It’s a short book and easy to read I like his red flags chapter.

Thanks guys, just seems one of the hardest things I’ve had to do, but know it’s for the best! I’ll keep you posted….

I’ve been married for over 20 years (now 48) been miserable for a number of years. Now I’ve done the work seen all the red flags I missed at the beginning, she’s 5 years older, controlling, gained loads of weight, no respect, and no sex etc. I know I’ll do well once I start dating, I’m 6’4...

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Thanks I’ll look to add to my stack, was already thinking of tongkat

Thanks, everything is good. Well May be the attraction, she’s got an amazing figure but no boobs. I’ve cut back a bit too on jiu jitsu I was doing it sometimes twice a day 5 days a week, now down to 3-4 sessions a week, so hopefully more energy.

Thanks appreciate it, thankfully she’s been really good about it. Hopefully as I settle in to it a bit more I’ll be back to normal

Thanks, I’m always a gent

Thanks, not stressed. But new relationship so only been at it for a few weeks. Seems my recovery is like three days. I’ll be able smash daily but only finish every other one or so. Went away for a few days and had a few sessions over a few hours and was only able to finish the once. After a...

It’s tight already, no kids, and she’s very petite. Might try some exercises myself though

Thanks, she’s definitely getting off even when I don’t finish. I’ll just try to relax and not worry about it.

Update - smashed a few more times, managed to finish about 50% of the time. Hoping things will improve as I’ve stopped fapping.

Thanks both, will explore more and try out.

Thought this might also be the case with age, hope it’s just a passing thing.

To add I’m 48, not had this problem before, probably the opposite, been over quicker than I’d like. I’m in great shape been hitting the gym 3-4 times per week for 20 years, plus jiu jitsu 3-4 times per week.

Thanks all, I think it is the boobies that’s the problem, never had this issue before. Went from a marriage with EE’s to the A cup. Shame everything else is perfect with this chick. Getting an erection with her is easy, it’s just the finishing, did managed to the first time but took bloody...

Just starting seeing this chick, really dig her. Starting to smash, problem is I can’t ***, I went for an hour nothing not even close. She’s starting to think it’s her. She’s got a great body, but no boobs and I’m a boobs man. Am I doomed, any suggestions on how to ***. not been fapping for...

Yep this, genuine burning desire is my number green flag.

Well done to those who are no fapping. I too started no fapping a few months ago, one of the hardest habits I’ve had to break. I was worried I’d had a few weeks worth of retention and been on a couple of dates with a chick, not expecting to bang her I hadn’t knocked one out beforehand, thought...