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@Murk Congratulations!

For the past two months I've had women contact me on TikTok, give me their number, and take the chat to Whatsapp. I find it odd that this happens on TikTok. I wouldn't obviously consider it an App for meeting people, unlike OLD.

@SW15 Thanks for your thoughts. Yes, I did get the Rolex fixed, and wear it every day. I do often read Jana Hocking's columns, interesting thoughts that most women think this way. This might sound sad, but I've never done a cold-approach in my life. My previous girlfriends were either a...

I've taken mushrooms and LSD before.

Yesterday, I went on a date... or more like a meet and greet. I met the woman on Hinge, text chats were good, then I organized a meet. Went to a wine bar, and talked for about an hour and a half. Conversation was great, no awkward silences. I thought it went well. I got a message from her...

I had a drink date today for a couple of hours that I've met through OLD / talking online for a few weeks. I let her do 80% of the talking, and guided her, asked questions where appropriate. Texted later after we parted ways, and she apologized for talking so much, but I reframed it saying it...

My last girlfriend, who we were on and off, friends and not-friends for nearly three years, in one of her final text messages to me was she claimed to be neurodivergent. I think a more accurate label to use would be bi-polar. When we were in person, it was great, but due to her poor...

Thanks for the advice.

Confidence Intelligence Humour

I think I lost my frame. I was exciting the pub, and she was entering. She said hello first. I focused on her. I should have given more scope to who she was with, ie: a guy or not? If not, I should've gone back in the pub with her. I messaged her when I got home, but she didn't reply.

What do you mean by that? She would smash, but depending on her mood?

Occasionally...

I'm 47, and I recently made out with a girl who is 28, who I've known for 10 years. I got her number, texted her, she replied, but wouldn't lock down a date. Tried a week later, no reply. I saw her last night, as I was exciting a bar, while she was entering, and she was like "Hi xxxx!", and I...

I moved from Melbourne, a city of more than 4 million people, to Darwin, on the other side of Australia, which has a population of around 150k. I have been here in Darwin for over 20 years, but the worst thing that has changed is that we now station U.S. Marines, so when they are in town, the...

I heard a similar anecdote recently. I made out with a girl recently whom I've known for 10 years. She's 28 now, I'm 47. There was a lot of gossip amongst the local bars of us kissing. A female friend of mine told me that the girl I kissed wanted to have kids and be married by the time she...

Yeah, my first girlfriend when I moved to Darwin over 20 years ago, turned out to be a lesbian. I actually felt used, because she was just after a c*ck eperience.

What do you mean by that?

Thanks for the brutal truth guys. I've known her for ten years, and couldn't believe I gave it a shot, but I did. Oh well, at least I got a kiss. I just hope it doesn't get awkward in the future, because she is a great girl, and a friend.

Thanks for the harsh truth. I won't pursue her any further.

Does anyone have any suggestions of what I should do? I texted her two days ago, saying I was interested in dinner with her, but no response. Should I just let it go? It's a hard one, as I don't want to come on as too thirsty, yet I'd also like to pursue it. So, I'm in a bit of a bind.