Went on a date

DarwinTaurus

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Yesterday, I went on a date... or more like a meet and greet. I met the woman on Hinge, text chats were good, then I organized a meet.

Went to a wine bar, and talked for about an hour and a half. Conversation was great, no awkward silences. I thought it went well.

I got a message from her today, saying she was glad to meet me, but there is no spark.

I have dated/kissed 7 women this year, only slept with one (which ironically was my Ex after we started talking for a few months)... only one of the dates led to a second one, the rest were all one date, and that's it.

I remember reading in this forum when I first joined, that a lot of men experience 1 date, no 2nd, no s*x. Disappointing for me, that's a trend I've come across this year. I've started to get a bit disillusioned with the dating game. I need to get out of this rut. Not sure if I should take a break, and focus on myself, or keep persisting and getting disillusioned yet more.

Any advice?
 

BillyPilgrim

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You have an asexual vibe and you're stuck in your head OP. Psychedelic mushrooms and escorts should help. None of this "persistence" or "work on myself" bs. You need to take extreme measures. Shrooms and wh0res asap*. For reals.

(*not at the same time, obviously)
 
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