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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    Yeah, let me hear it for sure. Tbh I wrote this thread because I need people to tell me what I need to hear instead of what I want to hear. That’s insane that the husband was right and that’s why he was so controlling:rofl: I never thought about it like that. Yeah, at this point we can...
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    Saving for the car is going well. I’m no longer living check to check and the estimated date for me to be able to buy a car in cash is before this Christmas. I’ve saved up about $2K. Now that I’m no longer check to check I can put a date on it. That will be a great Christmas gift to myself lol...
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    Out of the scope of this thread, but tbh I do miss having a purpose. While I am building my dream life atm, my current life consists of: Survive work during the week and make it to the weekend -> Do what I want on the weekends -> Do it all over again
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    You raise good points. I consider myself a hobbyist musician at this point because work is so damn busy. At this point, my purpose is making money so that I can spend more time meeting women I guess lol.
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    As I wrote all this out, I have a hypothesis that all of this emotional stress I’ve been feeling has been coming from problems in other areas of my life too. If I were to resolve those problems, then the emotional stress would go away as well. For example, I stated in this post that I want to...
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    Yeah, I already attempted to make a move on her and I got shut down haha. I just never cut her off yet or went no contact cause I felt bad about it and to be completely transparent, I still feel some investment even though I got curved. I don’t get that. I get the feeling that the correct...
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    Also: I don’t think it’s this bad, but it’s so funny how a lot of the advice from the DJ Bible written in like 2004 still applies. https://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000552.html
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    Yeah, I’ve read too many friendzone stories to confess my love haha. That never ends well. This is true about the small town. My estimated move date will be August 2024. That being said, I drive every weekend to a bigger city to approach. I can point you towards my successful interactions, but...
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    That’s what it’s looking like… I know we had spoke about this before but it came up again lol. Is there anything actionable I can do to address that void I feel? Idk why it’s like this when I hang out with friends and do cold approaches. Maybe the answer is just more approaches and more women.
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    WARNING: Long and emotional post!!! Yo, my SS Family. Hopefully you won’t flame me too bad for this one lol. I got invited out for some drinks yesterday, and this re-ignited a whole host of issues that I’ve ran into in the past. I’ve discussed some of this with other members before, but I...
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    Observations on Atlanta's scene.

    Yeahhhh I agree with you there on the attitudes of local Nashville women. They can be very stuck up. They also think they’re too good for Broadway which is hilarious lol
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    Observations on Atlanta's scene.

    I personally prefer the Nashville nightlife to Atlanta but I would have to spend more time in Atlanta before I make a full judgement, I think.
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    Approach Journal: The Summer of NickSaiz65

    If we end up rooming together, I think we could really do some damage.
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    Approach Journal: The Summer of NickSaiz65

    I do agree with this. Club numbers, for the most part, are worthless. I’ve been flaked on like a MFer from them too lol. However, it’s not impossible. (Just improbable.) My wing actually did have a girl come out to a date from a club interaction/number. Can you tell he’s really good? Lol
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    Approach Journal: The Summer of NickSaiz65

    Thanks man. @Jesse Pinkman ’s approach log is super inspiring as well. I do find it frustrating when we don’t pull, but I don’t think it’s fair to hold myself to the standard of pulling every single night. Even the top coaches don’t do that I think. That being said, I’m still going for the...
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    Approach Journal: The Summer of NickSaiz65

    I think it could make sense to keep this thread going until I move. That’s enough to keep momentum but not so much that my thread reaches 200 pages and is completely overwhelming lol. By the way, I won’t be able to go out and fight the good fight this upcoming weekend. I spent all of my money...
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    Approach Journal: The Summer of NickSaiz65

    I just realized that this thread is called “The Summer of NickSaiz65” and summer is over in a month. I guess I could rename the thread or something. Or just start a new one? I do enjoy writing these. Definitely want to pull and close again before the summer ends if I can.
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    Approach Journal: The Summer of NickSaiz65

    7/27/23 Didn’t go out, as I’ve been mentioning earlier in this thread. Instead, I caught up on my sleep and literally slept 15 hours lol. I felt fvcking amazing. I had a bit of time, so I started Link’s Awakening DX instead of just playing Mario Kart 8 tracks over and over lol @Dr.Suave . Felt...
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    Your thoughts on the jason country song?

    I think part of the reason people are complaining is the location of where the music video was shot at
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