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This pretty much hits the nail on the head. Tinder was a big deal starting my sophomore year in college, and people understood that it was "the hookup app", and were ok with that. Now there's a lot of entitlement because every right swipe for a woman is a match, while dudes are right-swiping...

Right, even in the archaic days of online dating, there was an element of abundance for broads. The fact just about every Average Joe has dabbled with dating sites by now (whereas dating sites were still somewhat rare 15 years ago) has made the abundance problem a lot more pronounced. I've...

They've been aggravating for a long time. Also, the dating websites in the late 2000s were also like this, except fewer people used websites back then. Men have always been at a disadvantage online (either websites or apps). Women have always had abundance online (either websites or apps). The...

I'm pretty sure this is the thread you were talking about (when you said there's a thread relevant to the topic of dating/sex marketplace changes as the Millennials age) I must say I'm perplexed. On a different thread, you suggested the unsustainable dynamics right now will correct themselves...

The only constant is change. I have put some thought into where I see things heading but I'm still trying to work through my own vision of the future of the mating environment. I've seen some good nuggets in existing posts I'll quote and respond to them. There are going to be changes in both the...

It was more difficult to replace a man in the 1990-1994 era as compared to 2020-2024. Women appreciate any given interaction at any stage less now than they would have in the 1980s-early 1990s. As a result, one slight slip up now can end an interaction. In 1990, text-based messages on...

Thoughts from the old lady: I see in my children (All Gen Z) exactly these trends. My son (a very handsome 22 year old married college graduate and USAF officer) voted conservatively. So did his wife and most of his friends, particularly the young men. My son and daughter-in-law are...

If Philadelphia is the center of the poon hunting universe in that area, find a way to get near the good parts of Philadelphia and commute to work in Wilmington. That's Option 3 from the list above.

Just wanna highlight this point because you've brought it up twice and I don't want you to assign too much weight to the decision based on this... Most of the women I've been with, despite me living in Wilmington, are not the local scene. A lot came from the Newark college bars, a couple from...

Why do I get deja-vu? Didn't this topic / thread come by before? The quoted article was published nineteen years ago.

Article about Men Wanting Mommy. ------------------------------------------------- A few years ago at a White House Correspondents' dinner, I met a very beautiful actress. Within moments, she blurted out: "I can't believe I'm 46 and not married. Men only want to marry their personal assistants...

My dad playing college football (and then working his way into lucrative jobs) would certainly suggest good genes. Then there's me. Autist, not football material at all, has yet to make even 40k per year (despite the fact I've been out of college for over a decade). In all seriousness, it's...

I have hooked up with two women from Delaware. I did it during college. Delaware (and I am not trying to be disparaging) is not a high quality of life state. It’s pretty, but it’s not flush with economic activity save for a couple of very limited pockets of corporate neighborhoods, mostly...

I don't know how you got bad genes or why you think your genes are so bad. Your dad played college football. Playing college football is often associated with being a Chad.

It's way better to deal with a roommate than a parent. Roommates can't ban you from having sex like a parent or parents can. In a roommate situation, you are typically not sharing a bedroom. The only exception to this is the college dorm room, which is only 1-2 years for most people. I think...

It's a success that a lot of men desire. It is difficult to get laid when living with a parent or parents as a legal adult. My notch count would be lower if I spent a significant amount of time living with my parental figures after my college graduation at age 22. During ages 18-24, young...

Childless women under 40 tend to not want to long term date a man with a vasectomy. Childless women like to keep their options for future child bearing, even if they are on birth control at that moment. A man with a vasectomy might see his longer term options improve with single moms who don't...

I fvck probably 2 dozen times per year. Just not the traditional way. On that note, my pregnancy phobia has had an impact on getting laid the traditional way. In college, there were 2 separate instances when I opted out of sex after a first date, despite the fact we were both naked in bed...

My pregnancy phobia isn't able to be resolved. It used to simply be about not wanting to support/raise children. As I've gotten older, however, I've come to the conclusion I don't want to pollute a woman's womb with my genes under any circumstance (even if I, for whatever reason, managed to get...

I think it's both a social and personal thing nowadays. There is an overall exhaustion from men when it comes of dating or even hunting.