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I did some musing tonight and find myself in agreement with zinc and frayzer. I think it plays more on the essence of what makes a man Love for a man, among many things, is the ability to let go, walk away, or leave with full appreciation for her and the experiences she enhanced your life with...

Yea I agree. I'll get better girls. In the mean time I'll keep her around and remain aloof. No use cutting loose a perfectly good plate. When she does contact it's usually 5+ texts in succession. Honestly if I play it cool her IL will only go up...unless she finds another castle, but I don't...

Anyways, update. We've been light/no contact since the last update, which has played out well. I took some advice from another thread and I'll keep her spinning. I don't have enough regular plates to want to drop her and because she's not looking for attention, hasn't rejected me, and hasn't...

Interesting story...I took a completely different angle with a chick I met on the internet. I had her over to 'cuddle' the other day. I hadn't met her yet so I figured she was a major slvt. Nonetheless we lay down, start talking, She starts with the 'I'm not here to hook-up' and 'i'm not making...

Lol, yea you guys are right. I all but walked away to get get her up...Since Saturday she's been doing the hot cold **** again. Gonna blow her off unless she plans to travel to see me this weekend at my buddy's place. I've realized over the last two days that she's not the same girl she was...

Here's an update since some folks were interested, but there's really not too terribly much to add. In between now and then I called her out on some bull**** that I won't detail, level-set some things, and had a fun date. Things are well. We went on a date yesterday and I asserted a couple of...

Called her and re-oriented the frame. I was too emotionally intense when we met, but it was almost rivaled on her end. Basically said that she's not my girl yet, but that she can stay my dirty ***** for now while we get to know each other and take it one day at a time. I told her that I want...

I should probably update the OP since you missed my more recent post. I have my own passions in life. I make 6 figures working hard and I am an avid cyclist. I have a little oneitis, I admit it. I am actively managing it. I haven't had a GF in a year so it's a bit of a shock to my system to...

Yea it's kind of interesting. I agree. I think men must act courageously when something they desire is on the line. Gotta let your pimp hand swing hard. It let her know that I was more than just indifferent...that I was interested, but that I wouldn't tolerate her nonsense or maintain her...

Thanks. What I said on the phone was probably the most manly yet romantic thing I've ever said to a woman. She called it that "daddy voice", heh. I know I have a propensity to over-think and over-analyze things. It's an unfortunate part of who I am and something that I find to be a daily...

Great point Hypno - Definitely going to lay low and play it cool. There is some history/emotional issues that lead me to think she won't go running, but I definitely won't make any attempts to escalate until I get the competition out of the way. It wasn't like she threw just pvssy at me. She...

Nah I don't. Thinking more rationally, I will probably drop the my girl ****, but maybe not. I'm definitely going to take a step back though and take things on day at a time. I am HAPPY to have her back in my life, and I haven't had such a surge in emotions in a good while for anyone like that...

Skip to the bottom Jeffrey We were always straight forward with our emotions. Hell, we talked about game and male-female dynamics. We are both very intelligent people. Albeit a little crazy. I have very high standards, and this woman meets them. But no, she's not my gf. We need more time...

Well, DJs. I'm bumping 6 months later for a success story worth hearing. After 6 months of very light contact with this chick, I got her to come running. After I cut things off she was all sad, and I wasn't exactly 'happy' but it was what it was. She sent me postcards for 6 freaking months. I...

You know I think I can contribute to this. Women's egos are hilarious. I have a female roommate. she was into another roommate. Wanted to relationship him up. He rejected/friendzoned her for whatever reason. So of course she's pissed and doesn't know how to deal with it. .. She comes to me to...

Good **** man. I read yours and Hansol's advice. What I want out of this is to let her come if she wants, but stay the **** back and pursue my own passions and other women. She'll probably drop a line every now and then and the only thing she'll get out of me is 'hey it's good your life is...

Excellent advice guys. I've come to a similar realization that Floyd has put forth. Yea she many never be ready, and I'm not going to put any hope or stock into it, therefor my indifference will stave off feelings in any event. Yea I'm not letting her think I'm going to push this any further...

I'm not in denial, lol. I used open relationship in a sense that there was no physical commitment. Whatever you want to call it we started out ****ing. Started to get to know each other better and things went from there, but that premise never really changed, we actually grew close, but yea...

No drama, no nothing. totally positive vibes. Done with this ****. I think I handled it well. As a refresher - Open-relationship, it escalated mutually. Things got really romantic, but ultimately she wasn't ready to commit while off doing whatever. I'm backing off. Given the nature of our...

Yea thanks for that. I'm going to tone it down a little to be more 'look me up-ish'. Like I've said, neither of us have been interested in anything remotely exclusive until the past couple weeks - she escalated it through reciprocation, but is shying away. so I'm backing the **** down. Sure...