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    Girl leaves for another guy... calls after 3 weeks

    That's a hell of a question, Bigfoot. I'm not sure what that means, maybe someone can enlighten me? All I know.. is the reason we didn't work out is because she has rage issues from a past rape (yeah i know, but they just "came up"). I tried to work it through with her (I was engaged to her)...
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    Girl leaves for another guy... calls after 3 weeks

    Nice advice MacAvoy. I'll make sure to follow it, seems fair enough. Yes, she does owe me money, but when I loaned it to her in August, because of the large amount, we had the agreement she has until the end of December to pay me back.
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    Girl leaves for another guy... calls after 3 weeks

    My girl left me for someone else about 3-4 weeks ago, and I haven't heard from her since. Before she left, I told her she's making a huge mistake that she's gonna regret... I never heard from her since. Last night she calls me about 9:30 and leaves a message about "the $$ she owes me"...
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    Was this the best way to handle this?

    You all were right in my previous post... and I didn't listen. Now I am. Short story: Thought girl and I were fixing relationship problems, but she left, and now says she's confused about another guy, planned on date with another guy, still confused, but claims to still love me, says she...
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    My girl a victim of rape, needs time?

    I've suggested counselling... she won't do it. She couldn't even bring herself to say the word "rape" until a couple months ago. She said she would go to a psychologist for depression, but she refuses to bring up that topic. The only thing I can do, is I've ordered her an excellent book...
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    My girl a victim of rape, needs time?

    My longterm girlfriend (11 months) was raped by a friend a week after I met her ~ 1 yr. ago. She never got help, or pressed charges, because she did not want the embarassment of being labelled a "rape victim". I was the only person she ever told. Three months ago, the effects of the rape...
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