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You're blaming everything and all others but yourself for your own downfalls mate. Until you learn to accept yourself for whom you are and push not half halfheartedly but wholly for whom you want to be you'll be back here in half a years time posting the same thing. It's not about tips...

Finally went back to my dermatologist about my acne (it got better then worse when I stopped and thought I was GOD). A few weeks down, the acne is almost gone and while left with scars, my flirtations with woman continue to increase with each week. It reaffirms sadly my view that good looks will...

This site has turned me into a bad bad person. It has taught me to: flirt; to be more confident with woman. As such, I've built a good network of plates and an even wider network of female 'acquaintances'. No problems here except for: pet names. It seems every one has a different one for me...

At 23 I picked up the DJ bible and the wisdom and advice of many of the posters here. Since then, I've gotten my life on track. Now I'm working 2 easy jobs, studying in a medical related degree, many hobbies while continuing my regime thats got me super fit and continually widening my social...

The girl I put on a pedastal then smashed down as I walked away with my dignity is supposedly struggling with my absence and no contact. I was an orbiter but now I'm free and happy for it to dedicate my time to people whom actually make the effort. Unfortunately as she is part of the same...

Thanks guys. PFL -this is a culmination of years being that guy that got blown off from a friends point of view. I think my message outlined enough and a smart person would be able to put the pieces together. Honestly, I've just got nothing to say to her. Every time I start to write something...

First off, this is not a spinning plates, sex etc thread but something I'd like some insight into if possible. Cheers guys. Female best friend of which we have shared and been through a lot together. Yet last couple years all the effort has been on my part (and even back in the early days...

I have never been one to next a girl as I believe in 'when a door closes, another opens'. As such have built quite an extended network of HBs of which they provide me with VIP access to clubs, courses or generally call up if my plates are busy (the advantages of having females as friends). Now...

So since my last post: -number close 5 HBs in the space of a few days. Was a huge buzz and never realised how easy it was; a simple hey whats your number after building some rapport and you are in. -unfortunately getting a date is the next big hurdle. Finding it hard to simply go for it. Have...

Yeah normally thats the go for me but the fact remains I'm her lab partner and I still see her for another couple months 3 times a week in a class that involves A LOT of touching as part of its curriculum. The girls in my course have already formed a tight knit bond so word WILL get around if...

We are lab partners. Otherwise I'd just be happy to NC and get on with my life. This all happened on the cusp of my change in life to become a better man. I keep kicking myself about why I ignored my gut instinct and let my white knighthood cloud my judgement. I don't see nor want any future...

Find a stress relieving hobby. Something like surfing. All that bottled up emotion and stress can be relieved easily even by simply going for a run. See how surfers are always so relaxed? No it's not the pot, there's something about just simply sitting in the ocean with no one about that takes...

NC. If she messages, just give her one word replies or that you are busy. Think it's time to cut your losses mate, sounds like she's had her fun and is just keeping you around for an ego boost. Don't become a chump. Like you said, you are now a free man, work on yourself, enjoy life and start...

Cheers N&I Tis a dark day in STR's life. After a drunken fueled night, he woke up next to a HB2. Cannot recall much besides dropping her off at the train station. Think we both weren't quite sure what happened. Have always hated clubs and will definately be avoiding them in the time being...

Something I should have started a couple years back when I stumbled across this site as a young squire to white knighthood. So now begins my journey. After the realization of my AFC relapse and ignorance in keeping a oneitis as a plate (the ensuing rejection that released me and in a sense...

Making sure, you had built good rapport with her already, grab her by the hand while she is still finishing off the sentence/ conversation and tell her to lets screw the line and go find an ice cream store? I've done this before mid date to do something else completely off the road and girls...

Thats the thing Floyd, I cared what other people thought in the past, bit my tongue incase I said something that offended. My morals still stand, I still act like a gentleman, open doors to woman, respect the elderly, happily do my volunteer work but rather now I don't allow myself to hold...

If we'd put as much energy from fighting each other into improving ourselves, we wouldn't even need to be on this site... (sorry Mods not trying to take anything away from SS).

Yes. Works like a charm every time - unless you are some hipster side on that calls everyone sister but hey, thankgoodness we ain't!

Good work mate, remember; Rome was not built over night. You like the many of us have started laying the foundations to a better life. It ain't easy but will be worth it all definately in the end.