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Re: Re: Re: Proximity & Stimulation Well we had been spending a lot of time together anyway and I just raised the issue of how I felt there was a lot of potential between us. Asked her where she saw it going. When she said she was still getting over the ex I just said that's cool, but could...

Re: Proximity & Stimulation I am in the same situation as well. I talked to her about it. She is getting over an ex and is interested but not enough it seems to go out with me. We are very close friends and she has agreed to give me space and that means at work as well. Do you HAVE to...

Re: Re: How do you TRUST women? Good advice. Thanks Blue Phoenix

Wow - thanks for all the replies everyone. Good advice - I think you have to be on your toes

Re: hhhmmmmmm trust... what a word! Agreed aequitas. I have nexted people in the past very easily - maybe to early. I think there is an article here about nexting to soon. For me the jury is still out on this one. Thanks all for the replies

I am ganji-ing a girl at the moment - had to do it after she played the hidden boyfriend card. Months of leading me on then as I get interested she reveals the boyfriend. Now THAT is emotional abuse. Don't like having to do it - but in a way there is no choice - you either be the rebound...

After reading a lot of stuff on this site and my own experiences lead me to wonder how you guys trust women at all? In my observation: a)there is always another guy b)even if a woman has VERY high IL - it can dissapear very quickly and you can get dumped If you are the kind of guy like...

christz agreed. I have no choice anyway in this situation.. She needs space and I am going to give it to her. Nothing I can do. If she goes back to her ex so be it. If she wants to proceed with me - then she needs to do some sorting out with me and that is up to her. So some sort of "ganji"...

I spoke to someone recently who knows a lot about dating successfully and he said something like " some women don't like being alone and are never single. They are either happy in their relationship or looking to get out. But they make sure there is someone else to go to before they leave...

Thanks for the reply Adrian. Some good advice. Yeah I guess I need to go out and find someone else that I like who likes me back! I tried to be careful this time with reading interest level signals etc but they don't always tell the full story.

thanks everyone Hey wow - thanks for all the replies ! Very helpful - This is true I guess. I don;t like to use the idea of victim to much but in this case I suppose I was. I really had NO idea she had a boyfriend and would have NOT spent much time with her if Ihad known. She really should...

Hi everyone need some advice. Met a girl at work. (i know I shoudln't get involved at work but am trying to leave this company ASAP anyway). Started out as friends - we really start to click over some months. I was not that interetsed to start with but we got really close. She shows...