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if she's in your social circle, I smell drama:whistle:

No, it does not mean that in their head you have an equivalent sexual value. More likely, they are not thinking about sexual values and just simply find you attractive. You have no experience. No wonder Genesis thinks you're a beta. By the way, being polite gets you a long way. Being bitter will...

He's offended because he thinks he should be getting hotter chicks. A girl's looks do not determine who she will hit on. If she, whether ugly or not, finds you attractive that is a compliment to you. If you don't like her, then be polite and say no.

ah, then I should've treated him like sh(t because he's ugly. Too bad I don't know how! The lesson to this story is to not let anyone think or know if you don't like something about yourself. Let them think you're happy with all parts of yourself and they can't hurt you no matter what they try.

It's almost as if he was punishing me for not being stunning. Like he expected me to make out with him even though I felt he hadn't taken me out. I drank them. We went home and made out, first base.

No, I've read blogs and forums where most men say a girl has to be hot for any money to be spent. Fine I'm not hot and he shouldn't take me out anywhere nice, but he's not hot either and maybe he should expect half-ass treatment from me too

No. This is what I've read on blogs and dating sites. Men usually say "I'll spend money on a hot girl". This isn't my opinion per se. Another thing is that another poster here (zinc4)? Said "he didn't think I was attractive e nought to take out".

True it won't help me, but the guy was mentally abusive to me when I backed off after the bar incident. He wanted me to believe my lack of stunning looks was why he was punishing me. This is why I'm hung up over this. It's not him, but rather that it took me a while to see that what happened is...

Of course this is the crudest answer of all and it makes me sad that he didn't think my looks were enough. Unfortunately, I do think that this is what he was doing and thinking. I do believe he didn't think I was good looking enough to spend money. After I drank the four shots, we went back...

Not really. There are too many different opinions here and no one can be solely right. I'm only pointing out what I think might've happened

Another great and logical answer. I'm not a princess because I don't even know what that really entails. Lack of experience and misconceptions of the dating scene led me to believe that for him to respect me and show it would mean a dinner date. I've never dated before and he knew it. (Due to...

This is exactly what I am saying! Thank you. I don't see how he'd think I'm quick?

Hello, all. I'm a girl, mid-twenties and I thought this would be the best forum to ask you guys about what happened to me with a certain guy who pursued me a little while ago. What happened is he had dated a HOT girl 2 months prior to me and he took her to a very expensive restaurant for...