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You've dangled the carrot twice now are you going to elaborate on another perspective or just dangle it again?

Thanks proto you are most helpful. Actually by listening to your mind you do become the inflexible idiot following whatever thoughts and feelings you happened to have at the time. Mind is the automatic thinker, the reactor, but you are not. For example when you see a hottie it makes all the...

This is quite a helpful way of looking at it. My other way I'm trying to think about it is I've been pretty unwell mentally for the past decade, being delusional is very much part of the illness. So given I can't trust my mind how can I actually determine if I am too old or past it, I mean...

Thanks that makes me feel great inside. In my defense I suppose finding it wouldn't have made a difference for me given the mental condition that hit me. Maybe sex would have alleviated it a little. You are still whining like a child. Start be "being a man" about it...

I went through this when I was 19-20 but got over it quickly. You believe that your way of thinking and behaviour and mindset are actually "you", they are not. They are at best bad filters of who you really are. If you were truly yourself and not the conditioned self and fearless in expressing...

Thanks pbsurf, really helpful encouragement around here, I suppose I should just give a **** and see what happens when I'm out. I am getting into shape work out hard everyday, surprised how fast the 6 pack is coming back and I can now see 4 again (last time I saw the 6-8 was 22-23 :) ) Yes...

Well all that, everything you wrote just does sound jaded, you can't blame women for being women, anymore than you can blame yourself for being attracted to hot women. I know you guys have insisted to the contrary, but yes getting a girl in bed in her young 20s aged 30 and above is possible...

Sounds very jaded. I'm not going to laugh at older women.

....not sure I could understand half of what you wrote, and it is very dumb analogy to think that sexual submission = submission in real life, or allowing a woman to have her way with you = submission outside a sexual setting. Its not pretending to want to force yourself on her, its her teasing...

Yes, so you start kissing a girl, and after a while she starts pulling away from you and then pushes your chest a little away with her hand (while you have your arms around her), at the same time she's starts rubbing her knee into your crotch or pushing her hips up against you, while looking at...

You will most likely get it and it is for life and it can be very painful, unless it was a scab in its later stage, which means you should be alright. I had it since 8 years old. Good news is if you get Type 1 which is on your face, you are very unlikely to get Type 2 which is genital (and...

I want to thank all of you. However I've come to the conclusion that I did miss the boat on early 20s girls, yes many of you guys in your 30s are comfortable dating a girl 10 years your younger, but I am not, I think 25 is my lower limit. Also being married in your 20s doesn't mean you missed...

Just thought I'd air this out there and get your guys opinion. This is not about being submissive in everyday life/interaction. This is strictly in the sack. My idea of normal sex is, lots of foreplay, kissing/worshiping her body all over feet included, going down on her, letting her tease and...

Good post, I went out on my own a couple of times last year. I must say I did get gunned down a couple of times by people asking where my friends are, and someone turned their back on me once I revealed I was just out my own (I said I was waiting for someone to arrive). However I do look...

You are right it is not the norm for most women or people for that matter, in my experience around 1/10 women will be this way inclined whether or not they know it (some discover it later on due to societies demands on them). I'd like to make a new thread about this subject to probe everyone's...

Look up divorce statistics in Manchester very much a working class left wing city then compare it to divorce statistics of say Henley on Thames very much a conservative upper class area, where the fabric of traditional English society still remains intact. I can't tell you where you'd find the...

No need to be abrasive, your comments just struck me as jaded. But I'd agree to an extent it is particularly in US society that this is occurring, yes it happens in UK society but predominantly in lower class society (not saying US is lower class, just less conservative on the whole).

I am no expert but it strikes me like the sex with her is what has got you dazed and she knows it, she is emotionally abusive and uses it as leverage, I have met the type. You should be glad you got away when you did. Don't change job because of her be stronger than that, I agree with the...

I've had a similar situation, I would just leave it, hard as that may sound. I would not call her, I did it was the wrong thing to do. I was too slow.

I agree, it seems like some very jaded commentary going on and I have never had a relationship and I'm 30, ultimately I am to blame for it not women. It can work both ways with marriage. I know of a 32 year old girl left with 2 kids, her husband left her after 3 years of marriage, and 8 total...