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my problem is how to get a plate of girls at a time instead of just one girl at a time which puts all of my eggs in one basket

Although there was no chemistry/did not feel any sparks during the date, I was hoping to still see each other and build on it because we have the similar personality and interests.

Funny you mention this. She had a bad breakup 3 years ago. She was really in love with her ex-bf who was the only bf she ever had. After they broke up, she was really lost and depressed. She even converted to a Christian to try to find her way and she still goes to church on a regular basis...

I know everyone says to cut contact a girl who has gone cold and maybe she will miss you and come back. But I have a feeling she will not contact me. I keep telling myself maybe if I do a little chasing it shows I care about her and she may give me another chance. I know it's a longshot...

Yeah it sucks. They get your hopes up and pull the carpet beneath of you all of a sudden :mad: I guess I still have a lot to learn. I have to be not so attached to a girl even if she shows high interest levels in the beginning to not set myself up for disappointment.

Before the real date, we had coffee in with eachother for about an hour and we seemed to connect and that connection continued on the phone/text until the real date. So she sort of knew how I was in person. I was hoping she would give it another shot.

This is the reason why she is still on my mind. If she didn't show strong interest in the beginning, I probably would be over her already.

True. I guess it would be awkward if I called her at this point.

We went ice skating and had dinner. I admit, the first date didn't go so well. I could tell she didn't really have a good time. She didn't know how to ice skate and I tried my best to help her by holding her hand but she still fell once. She seemed cold (temperature) at the ice rink because...

So if I call her, does that mean I'm throwing my dignity away? I still want to test the waters to see if she will respond.

After we first met and went out to coffee in the beginning, she seemed clingy and really into me even though she is shy. She initiated contact first by text 2 days later after we met. After we talk on the phone, she will also text me a few minutes later. We went out on a real date 2 weeks...