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    How to give attention properly?

    So once or twice a week? I dont have a problem not seeing her, if anything I make room for her in my day.
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    How to give attention properly?

    I am just wondering, if I stay aloof too much then my GF will get used to me being so unavailable and might cheat or whatever. However if I am with her too much (like texting, calling and stuff) she will also get bored and the spark will die. (Someone here mentioned, was it here or Heartiste it...
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    I have a GF now, thank you DJ's, but I have a question

    Yeah, well i think I did enough emotional bull so i burnt that card out and that means I will have to shut off my emotions from her for like 2 months. It did help her see the LTR potential in me when I told her that what we were doing was not working and that either we are a couple (bf/gf) or I...
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    I have a GF now, thank you DJ's, but I have a question

    Ok..any creative ways on how I can set it? It kinda conflicts with your number 1, I dont want to bring out a piece of paper and say "Here, these are the things you cant do for the duration of our relationship, sign here, here and here" and look insecure as f**k if I tell her directly My friend...
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    I have a GF now, thank you DJ's, but I have a question

    Bold: Unless you actually change your lifestyle, I am not going to brag and say I am an alpha male just yet, however, in this experience, I found that even the desire and motivation/discipline to be one is attractive to women (I think, not sure) you know, ambition, have lots of activities/plans...
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    I have a GF now, thank you DJ's, but I have a question

    also, I want to share this with you......as a word of caution....and to remember, keep one foot on the ground http://i44.tinypic.com/rs99p2.jpg
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    I have a GF now, thank you DJ's, but I have a question

    In about a year of lurking and asking questions. I went from being a kissless virgin to having a ONS with a girl at one point and now an LTR with a girl that I deem worthy to be in an LTR with. (also met tons of new people, mostly girls I think the secret to meet a quality girl BTW is to expand...
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    So when do I resume contact after no contact? a couple of questions

    Btw today, she ambushed me as I did the glasses and earphone things yesterday but now she got creative she starts snapping in the air like "hey" and I had no choice but to grunt at her and give her a quick one arm pat hug as I was legit late for class lmao...next time that happens do we ignore her?
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    So when do I resume contact after no contact? a couple of questions

    Story (condensed from my last post plus additional details) -girl and me confessed to each other that we like each other and that we will go out again -the other day, because of me being a spineless f@g might have chased too much (learned the lesson the hard way) that was Tuesday as she gave me...
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    Should the game we play change if she knows you like her and vice versa?

    So.....visit her tomorrow? Call? Text? What? Dude....we were actually on our way to her dorm when these guys are yelling out "flowers for 2 dollars!" roses too, and I thought "hell....I am about to get some! lets put icing on the cake and buy her the damn roses" so I did....but that act...
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    Should the game we play change if she knows you like her and vice versa?

    We make out whenever we see each other and before we leave...like a greeting, should I refrain from such behavior? And last sunday she told me that the flowers I bought her (I was sh**faced) was getting bad and that means there will be room for new ones.....should I buy her damn flowers?
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    Should the game we play change if she knows you like her and vice versa?

    Keep 'em coming, guys! this is really helping me feel better and see clearer
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    Should the game we play change if she knows you like her and vice versa?

    Though things are going great between me and this girl (note: I didnt get any, all we did was makeout and stuff and agree that we will keep seeing each other again) and usually she is the first to contact me. In any case, last Sunday she did not contact me until I contacted her and thats the...
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    Going into the relationship zone, I am panicking and want to run

    Atom, yes and LTR sounds great....but idk if I should...I don't wanna burn again.... There is nothing wrong with an LTR IMHO....sure sleeping around is fun and all, but come on now
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    Going into the relationship zone, I am panicking and want to run

    I guess I got used to rejection and never made it this far that I kind of want to feel the pain again (or something idk). There are a lot of doubts in my mind, we are sort of in between, we are not bf and gf (she did not do the facebook thing at all) yet nor did we sleep together yet, however...
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