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    gf wont get off dating site?

    Hey guys, thanks for all the responses and opinions. Just to let you all know, i have been here often reading them all, but, like most of you say, i have been trying to keep myself busy (which hasnt been too much of a problem, i have a few things on my plate right now). I will be back soon with...
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    gf wont get off dating site?

    Well guys, here is an update: We broke up two weeks ago this Saturday, after a morning discussion in bed. She kept saying 'i dont know what to do ****ydude, i dont know what to do'. At that point, we went into the relationship discussion (which i wont get into in detail right now), and...
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    gf wont get off dating site?

    Thanks for all the replies guys. I have been reading at work today and also talked with 2 of my close friends who also happen to be co-workers, and i have come to this conclusion: I am going to: I gotta be honest, and say that i hope the second option happens. But one way or another, i...
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    gf wont get off dating site?

    Well, incidentally, we are going to be celebrating my recent promotion tonight, so im not sure if i want to bring any of this up, especially since there is going to be so much good vibes in the air. And also the fact that it was just discussed with our mutual friend last night, and she will...
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    gf wont get off dating site?

    Thanks for the replies guys. So, i have an update... I talked earlier to a mutual friend of ours, who spoke to her last night. She was 'obviously stressed' were his words. Anyway, he proceeded to get her talking, and she said first off she was really stressed about work(she works for the...
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    gf wont get off dating site?

    Im not sure i follow you Penkitten?:confused:
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    gf wont get off dating site?

    Hey guys, i have a relatively quick, simple question for yall. My gf and i have been together 6 months this month, and a few months ago i brought up the fact that i thought it was time to mutually take our profiles off of a dating site that we were both signed up on. I told her it is important...
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    I Want A "Guy," With "Goals," and "Ambition"

    @Latinoman, No, I dont have a college degree or anything like that, but I do make decent money doing tech work for a stable company, with advancement opportunity. I make enough that I have been pre approved for a mortgage in the last few months for a place big enough for both of us if need be...
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    I Want A "Guy," With "Goals," and "Ambition"

    Its funny, i was thinking about posting lately on this exact same topic when i came across this thread. I am in a 4 month long (hopefully to be longer) LTR. She is the best girl i have ever come across. She is very intelligent, has high morals and standards, has an excellent job, and absolutely...
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    I Want A "Guy," With "Goals," and "Ambition"

    Its funny, i was thinking about posting lately on this exact same topic when i came across this thread. I am in a 4 month long (hopefully to be longer) LTR. She is the best girl i have ever come across. She is very intelligent, has high morals and standards, has an excellent job, and absolutely...
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    hardening up before getting serious

    Hey guys, basically i am looking for a workout that will prep my body and nervous system to get into heavier weights and bulking over the course of a couple months or so. A little about me first though: I am 6'2" about 160 lbs, 31 years old, and for a long time (about 10 yrs) i have had IBS...
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    I'm in a hole...

    Wow, its amazing how things happen in life sometimes. I sat down not 5 minutes ago to post a thread about the exact same type of issue that i have been dealing with. I suppose ill discuss it in detail in my own thread some other time, but for now ill just say......In2theGame......you said...
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    sex on the 'patch'?

    Hey guys, quick question, im a little worrried........i had sex with my g/f just last night, and she is on the patch....now, she took it off on wednesday, and usually she starts her period like 3-4 days after......yesterday (Friday) being 2 days later, we had sex and (unusual for me) i went...
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    Eye contact question (looking away vs. looking down)

    Since this thread seems to be all about eye contact, let ME ask a question, hehe. How about, repeated, intense, eye contact lasting 20-30 seconds at a time? I have a 'friend' (grrr.....im trying) that i go out with on a regular basis that does this with me, and has ever since the day we met...
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    good afternoon date activity?

    Dont worry guys, im reading all of your replies :) Heh, anyway on a side note, i think i should also add that the kino i gave her on Friday was the most i have given her in the whole time we have known each other. Remember me saying i smacked her on the ass and the response i got? Well...
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    good afternoon date activity?

    Francisco: I dont know if you were following me when you gave that advice. In short, we are close friends, but there is plenty of romantic tension between us, and she has even admitted that. I basically was wondering if i should just say "listen, i really want this to go to the next level and i...
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    good afternoon date activity?

    Okay, back with some more thoughts. jakeyboy: Thanks for the credit man :) And no hard feelings about the posts in the other thread :) Your right tho, i have overanalyzed. I wish i could be more specific about the situation, but like i said, it is unique, in that i havent been in this place...
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    the awful truth

    Since i would like to think of myself as a man (or at least one in training), i wont get pissed off or offended for you flaming me jakeyboy. Keep in mind, a lot of guys come here, not necessarily for affirmation, but for tips relating to their specific situation. The way some of yall talk in...
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    good afternoon date activity?

    Well guys, here is the update. Went out tonight, got off to a little bit of a bad start with me being late (miscommunication this time, although i have admitted that being late is one of my problems). Talked on the phone briefly before picking her up. On my way to pick her up i was totally...
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    good afternoon date activity?

    Like i said in my earlier posts, im still not totally getting the 'dont you think that is a little TOO romantic?" thing she was saying. The more i get to know her, the less i f**king understand her. Im taking in all the suggestions guys, but to be honest i think if i suggest making dinner, she...
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