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Over the years of using OLD I've found this to be golden advice. It will save you much time and frustration if you will adopt this mindset. Girls that are into you will make it very easy for you every step of the way. If she doesn't dig your pics or profile enough then there's very little you...

You need to make it known that you are attracted to her, without kissing her arse. Are you kissing/hugging her when you first meet? My usual routine is a kiss on the cheek upon first meet. Then wait until we're alone and stood next to eachother and extend my arm round the back of her neck and...

Eat more. Being jacked in school will set you apart from 95% of the other guys there.

You realise this is sosuave.net right? Not www.disneyfantasies.com. You are doing everything wrong. This girl was driven away by the very behaviour you are now exhibiting, how exactly is that going to win her back?

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Can't arrange anytime sooner as she has a daughter to look after and she'll be going to her dads this friday. I know what you're saying and I agree, I always try to avoid setting up dates more than 3 days ahead as it gives her chance to meet someone else/change her mind in the meantime.

Another one today - "Morning x" I get these every day, sometimes it's "Evening x" lol

It's always her that initiates the texting, not me. I try and give as short answers as possible without asking her questions, just statements really. I will take your advice and tell her I'm busy next time even if I'm not.

So I've got a date set up with a tight bodied, little 38yr old woman off POF for this friday night. Only problem is she keeps texting me every day. I know the rule no texting only for meet ups no chit chat but this is unavoidable. I'm guessing it means she has high IL but I'm worried through...

I'm suspicious. You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this. Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego? Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now? :p If your issue...

How did your friend handle the trip? Mushrooms tend to be quite harsh on those with big egos. I mean it's basically what they do, they dissolve your ego and if you identify yourself by your ego then you'll think you are dying when really you are becoming you true self. I fvcking love...

Ok so what is my best course of action? Not really sure why I'm so bothered about this one tbh. I think it's the fact that she is making me work harder forit that's doing it. Plus I just really want to bang her. I'll just ask her again tomorrow and say I don't have time for silly games or...

That's a very good point. I shouldn't really just roll over and conform to her frame by waiting until she feels ready to meet. I think I will give her an ultimatum of sorts. Sh1t or get off the pot. Obviously not in those words.

I feel if I were to ramp up the sexual nature of my msgs that it would scare her off. She seems quite fragile. She's into pets, art and such. Probably quite quiet. She keeps saying she's weird and strange lol I've kept it quite flirty and ****y/funny from the very start. She is one of those...

I'm chatting with this cute girl online and everything is going well, I can tell she's interested but when I asked if she wants to meet up for a drink she told me that she doesn't want to yet as she's "been messed about a bit by boys this year" and she wants to get to know me better before we...

Very helpful mate. Not sure why you even bothered posting in my thread if you have nothing useful to add to the actual topic on hand. If you have nothing to contribute to my thread I'd appreciate it if you'd kindly **** off. But if you have any ideas on how I can overcome my problem then feel...

Well J Roc you abviously know more about me than I do. Can you not understand the fundemental difference between talking with someone on the phone who you've never met and speaking to a person in real life like people have been doing for millennia. I'll say it again. I'm fine talking to...

No mate, my conversation skills are fine and dandy thankyou very much.....I'm referring to the fact that you're quizzing her on her life when you haven't even met her yet. Basically calling her up saying hi then going straight into interview mode...that is definately not natural I don't care who...

Thanks Iceberg that's exactly what I wanted to hear! I'm not worried about what to say on the first 'date' I have no problem with that. I just hate talking on the phone especially with people I don't know and don't really have a connection to. All I need is to get to the meetup and I'm...

But by the time I've got her number I already know these things. It's part of warming them up enough to be receptive to giving their number out. Plus when you reel off a load of questions like that on the phone it feels like an interview or something. Imagine what I mean here...You ring...