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Well you shouldnt feel angry, thats something you're going to have to take care of in order to become a more comfortable person. Its not so much about caring or not caring (may have been a bad way for me to put it), but more being patient with yourself, and having the confidence that things will...

I dont post here much, just lurk, but your post got me thinking. A few years ago I had your problem. Girls acted uninterested because they could somehow tell I was inexperienced and I never really understood how or why they knew or what to do about it. It seemed no matter what you did or said...

Ive been trying to talk to 3 people a day. I have a new job, and dont know all the people there yet, and I'm going to at some point so I figure now is a better time than any to meet some of the people there. Im going to be going back to school, and this job isnt something important where I...

Thanks guys. Theres some good responses here. Anyways, I'm glad everyone gets what I'm going through. The best way I can describe it is that theres 2 sides of my mind, almost sounds like im bipolar by the description of it. But one part of me (the new me) is a lot of self confidence that I...

Interceptor, I was really hoping you would respond to my post. Thanks...I'm going to try all that stuff. I've been meaning to work out more anyways. Its funny you say this, because I've been doing exactly that. I've been trying my hardest to stay positive as much as I can, and its hard to do...

I really hope that my situation isnt unique and that someone has been there before and can give me some kind of help or advice. Its very difficult to put my problem into words, so bear with me. My problem is that I know what I need to do...I just cant seem to get the balls to do it. And when...

lol, I like that. I'm gonna give it a try. I always have trouble smiling at/making eye contact with hot girls too.

Its completely random, means absolutely nothing. I want to be 100% anonymous and never be identified, so I left no hints.

I have to ask. Where the hell are you guys initiating this extremely long extended eye contact? Throughout my day I'm only in situations where I can hold eye contact with women for a couple of seconds maximum. Obviously this is enough to get a "hi" in or some other opener. But I'd like to try...

lol, I have a mazdaspeed 3 and I had one girl ask what that high pitched noise was, and the whooshing sound. It wasnt a date though. Why do you have seconds of turbo lag, do you have a HUGE turbo on there or something? But yeah, girls know nothing about cars. Having a nice car doesnt...

Please read post 15. Thanks to those who gave the HELPFUL advice:up: I'm out.

You're probably right. I'm going to back off of it a bit from now on. I think that may be about half of my problem in the first place. So is it correct to say C+F is mostly effective for average looking guys who are pursuing the HB8+?

I never claimed to be a DJ...so I dont know where you get this "talk". I'm a recovering AFC myself and theres no reason for me to be ashamed to admit it. I'm working on it. I havent approach the HB9 because I have approach anxiety just like a lot of other people here do.

I'd be attracted to the girl who busted my balls. Its just a lot more fun because then I'd be challenged to make a comeback. I like being challenged.

I said I was bothered by the fact that I didnt understand why my game didnt work, and his AFCness did. I did say that. I am not in any way "jealous". But after reading some of the other posts in this thread I believe I better understand it now. She is obviously not a girl that gets a lot of...

lol, I could easily have the HB9 at the door that stared me down with dialated pupils as I left. Yeah I'm pretty jealous of the HB5. Just thought I'd share my experience and get some input. And werent you recaptured by the chinese? They letting you post these days?

No thanks.

Yeah, I hear what you're all saying. But "I want to smell your perfume, dont let me leave without smelling your perfume" :crackup: Btw, he's now IMing the crap out of her. Every time shes online he nails her with IMs. I might be a little nosey about this but I'm just so curious. This girl is...

Ok, this is a rather strange scenario I went through. At a restaurant my brother and I were at we had this waitress that knows us well from being in there a lot. I used C+F on her and busted on her. I was confident and felt good about my game. She responded well by laughing, trying to return...

To hell with her boyfriend. I'm sure if roles were reversed he would try to take her from you, and might succeed. If I were you, I'd be all over that (in a non-AFC way that is), boyfriend or not.