She got back to me today and I'm seeing her this friday night so we'll see what happens then, I'll leave it until tomorrow evening to reply and make plans.
Thanks for the Advice Atom Smasher she does seem a bit of a pain at the moment, and I've just got out of seeing someone similar so I'm in...
I shouldn't have sent her that final message.
Just got another message off her, deleted it but it was a typical one telling me all about what she had been up to on her holiday recently and then the usual saying I hope you're OK at the end. She's obviously just trying to keep me around for a...
Thanks,
I am getting better but I do feel like I'm still chasing girls too much, anyway I'll wait until later in the week before setting it up and we'll see what happens this weekend.
Just started dating a girl in the past week and a bit, still hung up on someone else but this taking my mind off it and she is a nice girl so who knows.
The point is though we've been on two dates, ended up kissing on both and I'm going to try to get her back to mine for the third one this...
Hi all,
I broke my No Contact over the weekend, after she contacted me with, a stupid message saying she hoped I was OK after my messages a few weeks ago and that she didn't hate me and hoped I was still smiling.
We were only seeing each other for a couple of months,I won't go into the...
I sent her a final message after her message yesterday, that I knew that she wasn't interested and I have no problem with that now, and good luck with everything, and that I'm always smiling, after she asked.
That's the end of it now I hope, not gonna play anymore games with this one and...
At the time she really did seem into it though, she was playing the part well when we went out on dates, but was just an absolute pain to get on them. Anyway anyone who was really that much work that early on definitely was just going to get worse, thanks guys.
Yeh I have been thinking about it alot and can see that the majority of the time it was me that instigated contact whilst we were seeing each other. I guess I did come across a bit too available whereas the other guy probably wasn't, hence the increased interest for him.
I really wish i had...
I don't understand why she's still texting me, so Wierd. She said that my last messages were a bit intense, which they were but she's being infuriatingly polite, I'd rather her tell me to **** off. Then we could leave it be.
Thanks DonJuanabe. No I haven't replied, I'm just going to carry on No Contact, as I said, I'll be seeing her next month unfortunately at this party, so there will be contact eventually, but I don't want to do anything before then.
Thanks everyone, I know don't worry I'm not going to get emotional!
Just feel like an idiot, I just wish I had a time machine only discovered these forums after I got waay too needy, should have done NC back before when she first decided she didnt want to know but unfortunately I sucked into...
Thanks appreciate the posts, just feel a bit used by her, and unfortunately will be seeing her again in a few weeks at a mutual work party which won't help. Will just have to maintain a civil front and not let it worry me.
I'm doing No Contact though and have made sure I have deleted every way...
Hi,
I wanted to start a thread on this and get some advice as well as knowing where I went wrong.
I started seeing this girl a few months ago, who was introduced through a friend and it was amazing; the dates went brilliantly she was really getting into it and she came back to mine after...
Thanks, I know, it was a dry spell and I went all in. I had kinda figured that was the case but I just needed someone's opinion, I 100 percent know I shouldn't have responded the first time, that really put me in to no man's land.
I won't bother waiting for the none-existant response then!I...
Hi i'm a new member and I need some advice.
I started seeing this girl a few months ago, who was introduced through a friend and it was amazing; the dates went brilliantly she was really getting into it and she came back to mine after the second date. She was adamant that she didn't want to...
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