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After a month and a half the first hoover came today. It was a phone call and then a text that said "I understand why you don't answer I just miss my best friend. Take care." I have not and will not answer it. I only post because this is better than therapy. You all lived it and know that the...

You know, there was a period in the final year of the relationship I was about fed up and I hooked up with two other girls in about a month. Ironically she seemed intuitive to this and was responsive as ever. So I do subscibe to getting attention from other women is the antivenom but I can't...

Johnny, The utter failure to take any responsibility in the heat of the moment was always a huge issue with mine, unless of course a few weeks had passed and i had all but accepted the breakup. Then the heartfelt hoovers came... Yes I am lucky to be 6 states away now. I can't imagine a recovery...

AtomSmasher, did you go through the wringer with a BPD too? Insights from other survivors are welcome.

AtomSmasher, your thoughts are appreciated. This is not only cheaper than therapy, but I don't have to worry about a feminist agenda here either. These forums are a great service to young men and my little brother told me they may have saved my life. You're spot on about this being...

Thanks for the reply. Yes, I have experienced enough torment. There is no hope for this. My issue is now within. I question who I am to have let this happen, and struggle with the PTSD and a jaded edge the likes of which I am way too young for. The hunger for revenge, hoping that this ho will...

Longtime reader, infrequent poster. This is not a how to get my ex back plea. I am about a month and a half removed from my last contact with a BPD that would put most of them to shame. She's a waif and I was a virgin AFC, so the damage was subtle, insidious, and far more venomous. For 3...

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DAY 4 Long Story Short - Met a married HB8 two years ago with one foot out the door in her marriage, she worked long and hard for 8 months to finally get to me, so no matter how much beta backsliding went on it was never all that hard to re-seduce her. I truly believe she never had such a...