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    Help with the Loss of a Loved One

    Bump. I also shared a house with him (lived in apartment upstairs-and the house has been in the family 100 years.) His presence these 5 days have been so strong I had to take a leave of absence from work and immediately visit family in another state as soon as the services were over. I feel...
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    Help with the Loss of a Loved One

    Hello SoSuave. Despite the fact I have been a member of this board for 2 years I am an infrequent user, but it is the only online community forum I am a part of. This is not a game post, but I need help. On October 14th (just 5 days ago), my father passed away of a heart attack on his 56th...
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    Excellent Article that will Answer a lot of Questions

    Did anyone get a chance to read the article "The Defeated Man" on the blog? The author talks about the effect of a corporate job on your spirit and manhood. Not a pretty picture but a Very riveting read. These guys have a lot of potential. I just subbed to their email list.
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    Excellent Article that will Answer a lot of Questions

    One area that I may have disagreements with the author is the idea that fear is worse than jealousy. Internally fear can reduce a man to nothingness, but theoretically you could argue that the more collateral damage the more dangerous the emotion. And we all know what kind of jealousy a BPD can...
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    Excellent Article that will Answer a lot of Questions

    I've been browsing the net looking for some fresh reading material because I think the manosphere has gotten a little stale and one dimensional and found this. http://newdarktriad.com/2014/10/07/fear/ Looks like a brand new men's advice blog that is going to cover a more wide range of...
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    Dealing with Red Pill Anger

    The process of Denial-Bargaining-Anger-Depression-Acceptance took me about 3 years to fully cycle for the first time. Only recently did I taste acceptance for the very first time after spending a lot of time alone and gaining perspective. The process of becoming a man requires a strong sense of...
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    The Untamed Male Spirit

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    I am working in a mobile phone accessories shop . Your advise of attracting GIRLS

    Stop giggling because you don't know what you're talking about. You haven't done any "research". I worked for one of those two major carriers. A coworker of mine made 64k last year. Before that I worked for a much smaller, regional carrier in a midwest state and made 40k working PART TIME. Yes...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    This girl has just been NEXTed mentally. Today I shot a text to set something up and got about a half dozen qualifying questions about where I was taking her, what time, who was going, etc and she still hadn't committed to solid plans. I told her to forget it and she played stupid with a "Huh"...
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    Dull Friends

    They've bought into the "American Dream" scam. I'm 24 and most friends my age are working all the time and they turn down social events or even vacations trying to "save money". Don't get me wrong, I am working long hours too and am all about building up a "f you fund" young, but you do it by...
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    I am working in a mobile phone accessories shop . Your advise of attracting GIRLS

    I work in the same industry, for a major wireless carrier in a mall and am finding heavy c&f and negs activate hamsters. Girls that are addicted to their stupid iPhones are generally high maintenance Instagram addicts, so a-hole game has got to be tight. Ride them hard on their celebrity...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    Here's the story. No date but no flake either. She worked 5-5 that day and asked me to pick her up but I share a car and didn't have it Thursday. Mass transit would have taken either of us a long time so we rescheduled for "the weekend". I expected her to offer tonight but in conversation she...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    Going ice skating Thursday night. Picked an activity where I can excel (hockey player) that she's no good at. Great excuse to amp up kino with plausible deniability ie. hold my hands, waist, etc. Lots of text exchange tonight. This seems like one of those relationships that start hot and heavy...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    Just texted her an hr ago asking her what's up for thurs. No response but its 11pm. She has some plausible deniability not answering til morn. Expecting some flakiness but want to put it out there now instead of playing this game all week. Best way to respond to a flake if a girls IL is moderate...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    Got a text today "how was ur Sunday?" "the usual fvk bytchez get $" "who are you and whatve you done with DJinBlue" "u get the alter ego today" a true Gemini guess I'll keep my shades on" "yup u can't handle me" I stalled for 4 hrs answering the first text. Its been an hour and a half...
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    First post: A long, yet brief history of an AFC

    I am 2 months removed from a "relationship" with a psychopath who was running push/pull on myself and her ex husband simultaneously for OVER THREE YEARS. Yes, and I'm a bilingual college graduate with a good look, broad shoulders and a 60k job in my 20's that put up with this from spring of 2011...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    I guess it's time to chill back and see how the next few days go. I set the tone with nuclear c&f and same day text game. It's frustrating because you're spitting tight game and getting textbook responses, but also just as per the script the next exchange is riddled with flakiness. So...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    To the LJBF I was leaning on a counter working on something, closed body language with only my side facing her and said something to the effect of "GTFO, I got enough friends", then flipped it by telling her we could roll as pals if she stood there on my arm giving other girls dirty looks. She...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    Thanks. The c&f was really working in person, she was eating it up like chick crack but I think I might have tried the text game too soon. A 29 year old (American) girl that has not only been approached 1000 times by this age but has the courage to walk around a mall wearing big sunglasses...
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    Overestimated Interest level?

    Fresh out of the fog and 2 months removed from BPD turmoil I am trying to get back out there and am experimenting more with direct game. Today an HB7 walks into my store with mom and stepdad where I have one on one sales interactions often for 45 minutes or more. She's reserved at first but...
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