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@sodbuster - i actually still like the gal. Is there any shot of fixing my ****ups without chasing her away?

Hi gents, i realize my post was TL/DR. In short, is it possible to turn things around with a girl when I came off as a total douche? Way I see it, could be worse... No? I could've been a total *****. Any advise will be helpful!

Hey fellow SoSuavers -- In need of some life advice right now. I'll be going to a weeklong vacation in an island over the coming weeks, and it's with a girl (and her friends) that I had a massive falling away from recently. The thing is, she told me up front that I should arrange my own...

Haha. Thanks for responding back to the thread guys. Question for you all: is there a permanence to this? Barring any traumatic experiences which results in my backsliding in all aspects of my life, will this be considered my new plateau in the long run? I don't have an absurd lay count (the...

I know these days we preach about inner game, and try to avoid chalking anything to external validation as much as possible. But... has anyone here's reference point about themselves shifted after banging & dating a complete smokeshow? Even after everything has run its cycle between you and...

Asked a girl if she wanted to go out on a date on either Wednesday or Thursday of this week. She sounded hyped over the phone, and said that she was "Excited" about three times. Also said that it sounds fun and she's looking forward to it. At the same time, she mentioned that she will have...

Why I love going to these forums is that I'm able to see different perspectives that I otherwise would have never considered. Thanks for that, gents. Although now I'm probably more uncertain/confused than ever, it will at least allow me to look for the right info. Now, I don't want to...

Hey guys -- I need some veteran opinion on this. Me and this girl ended up making out the first night we really chilled at a party I met her at (mutual friends). Afterwards, didn't really hang out with her aside from a quick lunch (we work in the same building). Recently, at another party...

I had an ego-destroying moment. My heart was broken by the girl that I thought was "the one". Needless to say, even though I had "red pill knowledge", I haven't fully internalized it yet by that point. Even though I thought I had. My ego died long enough where I was able to take a step...

I've met a few girls like this in the past few years. Here in the forums, we've spoken about women that grew up in broken homes. But obviously, this is a different form of experience than just growing up in a broken house. It's growing up without a father figure altogether. Does anyone...

I asked a similar question when I was in the midst of swallowing the red pill. I actually reached out to A.B. Dada, who has some insightful inputs for those of us in the manosphere. He mentioned that he didn't really believe too much into the Alpha/Beta theories. That's all they are --...

This. Alphas win every time. Because if you're an alpha who DOES have an interesting personality to boot, the girl will pursue a relationship with you. I'd rather we do the deed early on and build upon that passion than making me wait for the woman while she's out banging some other dude on...

It was Rollo Tomassi that said it best: "Alpha is a mindset". I feel like this guy has given up without even learning about the ways of the red pill. It's so easy to raise your SMV by a couple of points. Work on your aesthetics, work on your ability to provide security and acquire resources...

speed dawg touched on this -- basically, the more unplugged you get, the less you find yourself talking about women. You know what's even more surprising? Is the fact that women pick up on that. I work in an office that's 50/50 in the ratio on men and women. And what was mentioned on this...

Thanks guys. Definitely agree that passion is a big part of it. I'm in the process of finding out what my passion is/what my calling is at the moment (I've definitely kept an eyes wide open sort of mentality regarding this). And I do have a few things that I'm passionate about, that I plan...

One thing I love about these boards is that the majority of the members have gone through the same trials and tribulations. I wonder -- I'm now 29 years old, about to hit 30 years of age over the next few months. Most of us follow the idea that men hit their SMV prime much later than women...

Or, having been there several times before, you see what the true Filipino women are after when these westerners visit: Money. Anyone can bag some average Filipina woman whose entire family makes $350/month. It's when you're going there and banging the daughter of the Alaska Milk Corporation...

Every seasoned DJ knows that attraction has an expiration date. Everyone seasoned DJ should also be savvy enough to know that they should just approach the girl, and avoid auto-rejection in the first place. In any case, what if you were put in a place where... because you didn't approach...

Been gaming a chick a long time. She recently said that I was a "scam", however. I can only read that as two ways: 1) She thinks that I'm playing her / my intentions aren't pure or; 2) I wasn't who she thought I would be. Thoughts?

Thanks for this. This is definitely what I've been focusing on these past few weeks. If I DO get the chance to see her for those two days (if she doesn't flake); I want it to be as a new me... as in, the me that she first fell for. I want to truly be that guy. Inner game. I haven't banged...