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Yeah, man. Gotcha. This is something I kind of discussed in this thread: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/tired-of-games.280142/. I think it has a lot to do with the mentality of lowering your guard without losing your frame. I say this because, for me, it's incredibly difficult to...

Maybe she just wanted to have you as a f*ck buddy and that gave the impression that you wanted something more. Chicks are unpredictable. Next.

Dating dynamics in Europe are crazy. 1 year living here and still trying to decipher.

Guys wrote a lot of good points here. And I agree with most of them. I am just not sure if it’s something that it’s sustainable in the long run…

This has nothing to do with that. OP had already established contact with these chicks. That’s why I said OP needs to understand his feelings about the situation and act accordingly. Without reading the situation correctly, you might miss out on a lot of opportunities for sure but, at the same...

I think it depends on the OP's feeling about the situation. I don't recommend chasing after women, as I rarely do that myself. If a chick is interested, she will likely chase you.

Some of them. Not all. And even if they do approach/seduce you, you still need to have the minimum capacity to take the next step.

There's no point in being attractive in the slightest if you can’t interact in a proper way. Every girl will notice this, and it will push her away.

Nailed it. As Jagger/Richards wrote, "You lovely ladies in your leather and lace/A thousand lips I would love to taste". Even rock gods won't smash all the chicks they want(ed). That's life.

Some basic mistakes you made: 1. You gave her a lot of validation. 2. It seems you lost time talking too much. 3. You took too long to make a move. (And this put you in the friendzone.) It hurts, but you'll get it right next time. Move on.

If this isn't enough to make you walk away... This chick is disrespectful, dude. Just move on. Let it go. Don't even respond to her.

Why it would be a bad thing for a girl to be a keeper? It is something that we, as men, are looking for. These days, this type of chick it's like a gem. However, as @SW15 mentioned, you just need to figure out what you want and see where it leads.

Yeah, usually that's how they behave... They live a mindset of abundance. They choose. It's very easy for them to jump from branch to branch. It has a lot to do with their biological nature too, which is often related to their hypergamy.

The worst thing a man can do is enter and stay in the friendzone hoping to eventually get some p*ssy. Moreover, the woman will always think you're seeking affection. This will diminish your value. Not worth it.

Brainwashing. High body count. She is not capable of feeling anymore.

She was just using you to get attention. And the way she did it was through messages and likes. It's a shame about the lost time, but I think you still have something to celebrate here. You dodged a bullet.

That's what has been working for me. When you are running a rotation, you don't have time to get attached. And, depending on your goal, you might not want to get attached either...

So he was already an ex when you witnessed these calls, right? It might have been a different story in the relationship. Women tend to magnify what happened to their ex-boyfriends to justify breaking up. And this leads to desperate attitudes on the part of her now ex-boyfriend, especially with...

Did she tell you that or did you witness it?

That's why they say ignorance is a blessing. When someone is red-pilled, they're unlikely to go back to the standard blue pill state. From there, it's over. They'll never see the world the same way again. I see my friends in relationships and how happy they are. But at the same time, how...