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    Jophil. Must read especially for Master DJ's.

    RIP Jophil, you were the first person I came to privately about my problems, and the advice you gave and knowledge you imparted will never be forgotten. Thank you.
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    Help! Possible Cluster B- Feeling Totally Lost

    I guess Findog wasn't too successful at hijacking the thread. Last and final update. Zero contact with her unless it was business matters the past month, she wound up moving out of the apartment we shared after making a huge fuss about it when we split about wanting to keep it....*****...
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    Going back after 3 months

    So I'm grocery shopping for stuff to make dinner for this girl tomorrow night and I get a text, "Do you think this apartment contributed to our demise?" Hahaha, really? Clutching at straws from that end.
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    Going back after 3 months

    I can't anymore after the new car/house ha. Like I said, I'm not looking to pursue her anymore. Just an update. Wanted some input on how i handled it.
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    Going back after 3 months

    UPDATE Scroll up for background on this tale Last week, I'm driving my new RHD car with a blonde girl I'm seeing in the passenger seat. Look to the right, and my ex has pulled down the street in her new car with her gay friends in the passenger seat. Anyways, we wound up going towards the...
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    New one throwin' curves? - Feedback

    I don't have any furniture in my place right now, just the bed. Any ways of utilizing an empty apartment?
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    New one throwin' curves? - Feedback

    Called her, told her I'd take her out tonight after work, kinda surprised tone in her voice, turns out she's working til 1, but she said feel free to come down...I guess we'll see where it goes from there..
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    New one throwin' curves? - Feedback

    I'm debating whether to call her and tell her/insist I'm taking her out after she's off work tonight (midnightish) but I'm thinking that I'm coming off as too clingy/available here. To call right now and set it up, or not to call? feedback please..
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    New one throwin' curves? - Feedback

    Thing is, I was totally sober and she wasn't. Sounds AFC, but that's not my style. On her birthday she was kissing me, at one point she was rubbing my hand in her cleavage, that was about as far as I'd let it go, the old me would have banged her, but that never worked out in the past. I...
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    New one throwin' curves? - Feedback

    So I'm looking around for houses right now, in the meantime I'm starting to get settled in my apartment (just bought a king bed).... Onto the story.. Background- Girl I had classes with three years ago gets back in touch with me via fb message about a month or so back asking if i wanted to...
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    Going back after 3 months

    So since I grabbed that stuff two weeks ago I have since bought a new car and have a new place. Have not contacted her outside one financial matter. We still have some loose ends to tie up. Friday night I'm out with mates and I get a text from her. A drunk text since she misspelled; "someoe...
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    Going back after 3 months

    She wasn't quite sullen as she waschipper or putting on a face. She was feeling like a by gone until today.
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    Going back after 3 months

    Field Report: So I waited for 5 minutes, and she pulls up in an 06 mini cooper (we always talked about getting one) so we go in and the small couch is gone replaced with a reading chair, my ****s all in the corner packed up, she calls the cats out to see me, there is art all over the walls...
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    Going back after 3 months

    I just want to get in, get the stuff, and get out. I don't want to do idle chit chat. I don't want to ask how she's doing, I don't even want to see my cat. If anything I want her to see how well I'm doing. Bing, bang, boom and I'm out. 2 months ago I would have wanted to talk about...
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    Going back after 3 months

    Hey everybody. I was the OP of the possible cluster b thread that garnered some attention over the past couple months. To cut to the chase, I'm heading to my old apartment during my lunch hour to grab the rest of the things from my ex LTR whom I haven't seen since late February. I'm just...
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    Help! Possible Cluster B- Feeling Totally Lost

    Give me the red pill. What's NeXT?
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    Help! Possible Cluster B- Feeling Totally Lost

    This is exactly what happened to me. Shortly after the break, I tried to express how I felt, but I kept getting put off for "work" meetings, she even said "tentatively" to one meet up, I was completely painted black and flat out ignored or brushed off when I tried to sort things out, and be...
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    Help! Possible Cluster B- Feeling Totally Lost

    Just some updates: She texts maybe once to twice a week usually along the lines of "Did I give you back that journal I gave you last xmas" or "are we doing the silent treatment again?" , in which I don't respond 90% of the time, the 10% is a one word response. I'm enjoying my new job still...
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    Help! Possible Cluster B- Feeling Totally Lost

    Haha I'm going to Vegas in two weeks, chill out die hard I've already hit that spot.
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    Help! Possible Cluster B- Feeling Totally Lost

    I want that last part but I don't think thats possible anymore, but I've always been sucked in by the dance for years, and it appears my feet are half way in those shoes. And no, she is not normal by any means, she's hoovered for years. Check your pm johnny
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