SmackinIsaiah
Don Juan
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So I'm looking around for houses right now, in the meantime I'm starting to get settled in my apartment (just bought a king bed).... Onto the story..
Background-
Girl I had classes with three years ago gets back in touch with me via fb message about a month or so back asking if i wanted to go out for coffee/bev sometime. She's an honours student now, haven't hung with her since we studied (when i was dating someone)
So we go out for drinks one night, catch up (we both got out of LTR's in Feb) and out for a drive in which my vintage import breaks down in a thunderstorm on a dirt road, so that puts a damper there. Talk back and forth a bit after but nothing really comes of it, I wind up going out of town for business,.
Get back and we try making another night last Friday. Things go great, talked about fave movies etc. I keep her moving the whole night taking her around various night spots in the city. Danced, she met a couple of my friends (one being the dj at the last spot we were at). We get to talking earlier in the night about a social event that we both were invited to, turns out they were different events in the same complex but I wind up going, we meet up and she asks if I want to go out with her and her friends. I wind up meeting her whole core group (all of her friends are married/engaged/living together).
So after the Friday and Saturday, we part kind of awkwardly, I don't know if it was the alcohol, nervousness? dunno. Anyways, I wind up bidding on a house on Sunday, told her about it she said it sounded really exciting, and that she was thinking about watching (common fave movie) that night. I told her, no you've gotta watch it with me, she responds with ok tomorrow? I go to her house the next night til 2 am, watching the cup finals and later the movie, talking, wind up close on the couch, and kissing.
Two days later, it's her birthday, she asks if I want to come out, I say for sure. Realize I had prior plans to watch game 7, she understands, so I ask if she wants to go for a birthday lunch, we have a good time (still some pauses in convo, but she seems pretty shy) I walk her to her car, kiss her and tell her I will meet up with her later that evening. (we also made plans for a social thing on Sat.) At this point I'm kind of seeing her as possible LTR material, down to earth and not crazy like the last couple I've dated.
Meet up with her and her friends, at this point she's pretty birthday drunk, after the birthday shots, she's talking me up a bit to her friends and lots of kino. She asks me later if I can drive her to her best friends' house and she asks if I want to come in, I'm a little apprehensive cause she's drunk, but I come in and we wind up passing out on the couch after a bit of making out (I wouldn't let it escalate past that cause of her state) I leave at 8 am for work, and shes def. hung over and not as 'affectionate' (still remembers the whole evening).
However since then she's seemed a bit distant I think, I was on the phone with her for 5 mins, but she could have still been hung over. I was out looking at houses again last night and she told me to let her know how it went, but didn't seem as enthusiastic to talk. She was serving late last night, told me that she was happy that I got my new apartment set up but her phone was dying. So she says phone's goin, have a good night. The girl sure adds a lot of smiley faces in texts, she's really soft spoken so I don't know if she's shy or what..but I'm getting distancing vibes
Anyways I'm not sure what my next course of action is here, she said she'd help me set up new place (just a reason to get her over). Either I'm analyzing too much here, or maybe she's losing interest. She has however invited me out a few times, met her core and close friends etc.
Background-
Girl I had classes with three years ago gets back in touch with me via fb message about a month or so back asking if i wanted to go out for coffee/bev sometime. She's an honours student now, haven't hung with her since we studied (when i was dating someone)
So we go out for drinks one night, catch up (we both got out of LTR's in Feb) and out for a drive in which my vintage import breaks down in a thunderstorm on a dirt road, so that puts a damper there. Talk back and forth a bit after but nothing really comes of it, I wind up going out of town for business,.
Get back and we try making another night last Friday. Things go great, talked about fave movies etc. I keep her moving the whole night taking her around various night spots in the city. Danced, she met a couple of my friends (one being the dj at the last spot we were at). We get to talking earlier in the night about a social event that we both were invited to, turns out they were different events in the same complex but I wind up going, we meet up and she asks if I want to go out with her and her friends. I wind up meeting her whole core group (all of her friends are married/engaged/living together).
So after the Friday and Saturday, we part kind of awkwardly, I don't know if it was the alcohol, nervousness? dunno. Anyways, I wind up bidding on a house on Sunday, told her about it she said it sounded really exciting, and that she was thinking about watching (common fave movie) that night. I told her, no you've gotta watch it with me, she responds with ok tomorrow? I go to her house the next night til 2 am, watching the cup finals and later the movie, talking, wind up close on the couch, and kissing.
Two days later, it's her birthday, she asks if I want to come out, I say for sure. Realize I had prior plans to watch game 7, she understands, so I ask if she wants to go for a birthday lunch, we have a good time (still some pauses in convo, but she seems pretty shy) I walk her to her car, kiss her and tell her I will meet up with her later that evening. (we also made plans for a social thing on Sat.) At this point I'm kind of seeing her as possible LTR material, down to earth and not crazy like the last couple I've dated.
Meet up with her and her friends, at this point she's pretty birthday drunk, after the birthday shots, she's talking me up a bit to her friends and lots of kino. She asks me later if I can drive her to her best friends' house and she asks if I want to come in, I'm a little apprehensive cause she's drunk, but I come in and we wind up passing out on the couch after a bit of making out (I wouldn't let it escalate past that cause of her state) I leave at 8 am for work, and shes def. hung over and not as 'affectionate' (still remembers the whole evening).
However since then she's seemed a bit distant I think, I was on the phone with her for 5 mins, but she could have still been hung over. I was out looking at houses again last night and she told me to let her know how it went, but didn't seem as enthusiastic to talk. She was serving late last night, told me that she was happy that I got my new apartment set up but her phone was dying. So she says phone's goin, have a good night. The girl sure adds a lot of smiley faces in texts, she's really soft spoken so I don't know if she's shy or what..but I'm getting distancing vibes
Anyways I'm not sure what my next course of action is here, she said she'd help me set up new place (just a reason to get her over). Either I'm analyzing too much here, or maybe she's losing interest. She has however invited me out a few times, met her core and close friends etc.
