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    how can ex "fall in love" with someone else in so little time? long

    I wouldn't. I think this is why I still tried to see if we could work something out after meeting up with her. I have not dated or flirted with another girl since then, well I did for like a day or two but she ended up having a bf so I stop. I believe as soon as I find another girl, my emotions...
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    how can ex "fall in love" with someone else in so little time? long

    You guys make very good points and I agree with what you're saying. I just felt stupid these last days after meeting up with her. In my mind I thought oh we might make something work, but then I saw what she been posting. Honestly I don't think I lost something that I will regret and I even told...
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    how can ex "fall in love" with someone else in so little time? long

    will read it. Like i said in my post, I don't have a problem her moving on, but in a way I'm just surprised? how quickly this guy become so important to her. A guy she haven't seen since high school, and had just been talking on the phone, texting/ facebook, she saying how he makes her happy...
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    how can ex "fall in love" with someone else in so little time? long

    by the way, before you guys say let it go, I did. It's interesting because after i saw her, I thought well maybe after we talk about everything that we did wrong we could make this work for the better and be in an actual relationship now. That's the main reason I kept looking for her, after I...
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    how can ex "fall in love" with someone else in so little time? long

    well maybe not so little time, I went out with this girl for 1 year, recently like 4-5 months ago, she started talking a lot to a friend of her from her highschool days. I saw they were flirting on occasions in facebook but didn't think much, however I did bring it up to her one time, and she...
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    No apartment to fvck in! What to do?

    lol this brings memory, I was gonna Fck this girl off POF, but i was broke and didn't have any money for a hotel, I told her I knew this spot near her house * which I did, because that's where I used to have sex with this one girl* where we could safely have sex in the car, but she didn't want...
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    break no contact to get something back from ex?

    so i texted her last night around midnight asking her if her dad already took the pics so i could get the camera back, it's 1 pm no and no reply from her, since we have mutual friends on facebook, I've seen her post since the morning, so she is not dead
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    break no contact to get something back from ex?

    well it didn't end because of that, I went to Vegas with my friends and I didn't tell her about it, I didn't feel I had to since she goes out and I don't know where she goes. She knew about it because of my friends tagged me in a facebook post. Then she deleted me from my freinds list and...
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    break no contact to get something back from ex?

    Long story short, I couldn't take it anymore with this girl, it was one thing after another, I know in the long run this was for the better, I really liked this girl, but she just wasn't ready for a relationship, I don't blame her because i knew this since day 1, things didn't start out the...
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    girl im going out with is going "born again virgin" ADVICE

    yeah I think we started having sex like maybe twice a month, then it progressed into 3 times a month, but the last couple of times she told me she felt bad, no joke, one time she even cried during sex. I know she isn't having sex with anyone else for sure. Honestly I don't know what her deal is...
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    girl im going out with is going "born again virgin" ADVICE

    hey thanks for the reply, I just read Tomassi's piece. It's interesting to say the least but I think my situation can be different, i do agree with you that being sexually frustated is not really something I want to become. I just don't get this girl, since the beginning of the year she told...
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    girl im going out with is going "born again virgin" ADVICE

    ok here is my situation, looking for some advice; I've been going out with a girl for almost a year, started off as sex buddies, we would have sex every now and then, not really too often. Things started changing and feelings involved in the both of us. She asked me to wait for her to be in...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    first week of no contact. ignored her texts. she called me yesterday, didn't pick up, she texted me right away saying to please answer, she called me again, so I answered. she wanted some directions and she would always call me before so I can look up directions on my phone when she was out, her...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    so on the second day this girl texted me. She texted me twice last night, first it was a question about a tablet ( she is using a tablet to use the internet and asked me a question regarding it )I DIDN'T reply. Then an hour later she texted me again and I didn't reply either.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    ok, so I guess we're using this space to help release our emotions and not contact our exes. I had a weird relationship for almost a year with a girl who was my friend 9 years prior to us "getting together" We liked each other but didn't want a relationship and did the Fbuddy thing. At first...
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    Girls with tons of guy friends

    sorry OP, but she is most likely a *****. I know a girl like this, she was my FB. She says she has guy friends because girls are dramatic. but... she has mess around with many of them, she is an attention *****, she has childhood issues, she is a slut, and her only female friend is a slut too...
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    Flakey FWB/FB - how to handle?

    I think it's over man, maybe she really likes this guy she is dating. You have contacted her many times without getting a reply, it's time to move on and find a new one.
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    "You're a nice person"

    I read your post and I think the problems is not your looks, ugly people get lay too. It's a more deep problem that you need to take care of, you're insecure.
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    Fbuddy broke it off, I kind of miss her.

    Now she broke it off and I know it's for the best but I can't help but miss her. we've been friends for 8 years, in August of last year we started texting and she confessed that she had a dream about us having sex, i told her, let's make it a reality, we both said we didn't want a...
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    Take chances! also for those shy guys, quick story from a personal experience

    Let me start by saying that I'm 26 years old. I have always been a shy guy ( been changing it for the past year) it was really extreme on high school, girls would make me blush just by talking to me. I had this cute girl on high school since the 9th grade, she would talk to me as other girls (...
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