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And hey, for what it's worth, I acknowledge your situation and experiences, completely understand your frustration, and can see why you're considering escorts as an option. It's a valid response.

I honestly think it depends on how you're individually wired. I've only ever tried it the once and it didn't scratch my itch at all (was one of the worst sexual experiences of my life). Most of my friends haven't had positive experiences either. Having said that, I know one guy who shelled out...

The last gasp of desperation at the end of the year - I'm getting about three times the amount of attention online that I normally would. I know I shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth, but it does make it rather obvious how lazy they are the rest of the time. Delightful creatures really:)

Was just writing about this in another thread. I can think of two overlooked advantadges of OLD. Filtering - with a bit of experience you can get very, very, very good at filtering online. My buddies and I have made some staggeringly good calls based on some tiny bits of data. Scary good - Am...

Damn, I think I just lost my appetite Vlad! Yeah look, you can't ignore the fact that women who are already romantically/sexually successful probably aren't rushing to get themselves online (though that's changing). But it's definitely the best arena for filtering - day/night game you're...

I think the interesting thing here isn't that she turned out to be nuts, or that I managed to sniff her out early on - it's that the other guys on PoF refused to take the bait. It's kind of heartening.

So when I started out about eight years ago, I used to actively push back against women wasting my time or just generally being sh!tty people - never got to the point of name-calling or hurting them purely for the sake of it - but I had no qualms about letting them know exactly how they were...

"Feel free to walk Toots"

You took the words right out of my mouth. It's not that there's a lower quality of women online than the 'real-world', it's just that their flaws and shortcomings are immediately obvious (courtesy of their profile) and that's a good thing.

There is a third option: just message the girls you actually feel compelled to talk to because something in their profile resonated with you. It goes without saying that you'll date much less often this way, but you'll have a much better quality of experience, and the process will feel like...

Gotta say Stugots, that's some really good stuff. I said... WHOSE...FRAME...IS...THIS?!

I concur - I have many of the same grievances the writer does.

Ah, this guy gets it:) Welcome to the team:)

Personally, I think if you value something that deeply, you honour it through your behaviours, words, and actions. Ink doesn't mean squat.

Love it! I was having a little look in Ventura County on PoF - might be headed there for work next year - and was kind of surprised to discover that the girls there are really on the back foot about their tattoos - really defensive. The backlash is in full swing and I couldn't be happier. Same...

Couldn't agree more. When a girl outs herself as an OLD virgin, my usual response is to say - fvck that noise, come back when you've worked off your nerves - I'm not going to coach another girl through this - or words to that effect. The last girl I had a pseudo MLTR with I met through OKC...

High-five for you sir. Because standards, that's why.

Yup, I'm expecting to see a lot of that kind of thing - it does make me wonder how Mr and Mrs Average ever hook up?

This might turn out to be a vaguely interesting thread. These are the unsolicited openers I've received online over the last month - stop harassing meeeeeee! Bahahaa. Anyhoo. What's the point? Apart from morbid curiosity, I think it's useful to remind yourself that the average girl's "Game"...

What I'm Looking For: Someone who hates the same things I hate. Seriously. One time, and one time only, I came across a very cute girl who took a really clever, snide shot at all the travel junkies online - and I damn near fell in love (swoon!). Because this - "Hallelujah, you'll be glad to...