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Lol I'm not trolling. Maybe I'll give them an opportunity. Regards.

I was pointing towards the particular choices from the start. Of course recommending books is great. But it stops being great when those books talk about how women are evil creatures of hell.

People, I appreciate all those suggestions. But I sense a lot of resentment in many of your choices. Manipulated man? Venus:The Dark Side? Explanations about how women are stupid? Don't forget that we are all humans, hairless monkeys with no tails, playing the game of seduction and love...

I'm not referring to be alone in physical terms. I'm saying you can have a good moment with a girl, in contrast to a LTR where you know you have a partner to talk and have a good time. Between that, you will be alone. And you have to deal with it.

It's easy in theory, but being with a hot girl adds an extra pressure. Anybody can be an alpha with an average girl.

I got dumped by a girl because I was too overattached. In the end, I summarized many of my previous behaviours (even before meeting her) to find out if I did something wrong. So, These are some interesting points I found out: I relied on her to be in peace. Even further, my emotional stability...

Everything's true. I'll try NC and see chances with other girls. :)

Bump. I became friend with an ex of her in facebook (just exchanging messages, not appearing as a friend). He said to me "relax, stop texting her and next week just ask her on a date. I know her, she'll sure forget about all of this". So I did. Got no response. The worst part is that I know...

If you go that far, then "denied" is also relative of the thoughts. Yes, it's all about our thought of how our sex life should be in contrast with reality. For example, my goal for sex life is to stop feeling dependent of a single girl. If a opportunity comes once in two years then it sucks...

It depends on the various interpretations. But in overall, mindfulness is about feeling whole with everything and full with peace. And when you achieve that you stop worrying about anywhing, and stop even some feelings. The logic is simple: You feel comfortable in your chair when you don't...

Thanks man. That's a good one. :) But I wonder: Is the fact that she never called or texted me on her own initiative something that could made me nervous?

I got horribly nervous and spammed her with messages. At a certain time I stopped, analyzed, came to a conclusion and went back happy to her, hoping that our relationship was still alive and kicking. But based on her answer it was too late. Now our relationship is lost. I miss her affection...

I messed up, got too close to her, got nervous, and now she doesn't even want to talk to me. I cried a lot and felt terrible. Now I feel a little better and thought "I'll share this on the forums, maybe they will cheer me up". Thanks in advance in case you do. :p

I'll tell you how: Leave that fantasy of you two together. Here's a thing: You expected love from her. While it's not the best thing to do (since it's better to generate than expectate), we all do that sometimes. But even worse, you forgot about reality and sticked to your fantasy. If you...

Maybe this is the wrong subforum. Even if I don't qualify as an adult, I'm talking about the street more than a closed environment like "high school".

And that means you should go on with your life. Denials are part of it.

Im 25, and from latin america. Dont get me wrong. I'm not saying I'm ugly. I'm saying that I'm nothing special in terms of appearance. Some sell a character like "revolutionary hero" (yes, that's the **** for leftists here) or "the pretty blonde with blue eyes". Unlike those guys, I'm just a...

That's fairly correct. That day I was doing workout just before going out and meeting the first girl. And then it went like a snowball. Perhaps the rush of endorphines was the main factor of this. :) Who's Tim and what's RSD?

Hello everyone. This is my first post in the forums. Actually, this is more like a question I want to look into. I'm not really into flirting as a set of intructions and techniques. Maybe most of you disagree with me. And it's ok, I don't want to convince you of anything. I prefer to leave that...