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No contact is our best weapon. Second is finding somebody better. I'm already working on the second part. I have a hot co-worker showing high interest. We have arranged to go to the gym together next week. What's even better is, it's one of the women my ex was jealous about. I apparently...

Best way to deal with all of that is, assume the role of an observer instead of a participant. Validate how she feels without agreeing or counter proving her points. It's the best way to deflect those types of people. They want to draw you into a confrontation. Read this it may work for you...

I prefer somebody with some life experience and on the same level intellectually as me. Not only that but in my experience, sex is better with a woman in her mid thirties and up. They no longer have the insecurities when they were younger and are more able to let go of inhibitions in the sack...

Fun update to my situation. I finally met my replacement. Because of the timing and it being the weekend. He was there when I had to pick my son up Friday. Up until now she has tried her hardest for us not to meet. She was clearly in discomfort and stressed. I went over to him to shake his hand...

Karma is a good word for it. In truth I don't blame women for not going for the nice guy. The nice guy is a doormat. The traits of nice guys will lend a listening ear to all their relationship problems, thinking they can backdoor their way in, that way. Or help the hot neighbor move, water her...

Most women I know do spend their 20's picking guys for the wrong reasons then end up having kids with them, sometimes with different daddies. Until they discover their dating patterns and wise up (if they ever do). It's only in their mid thirties they start to look for guys that has future...

It sounds like an illness some evil female genius would come up with. Let me make this incredible sexy woman, who will satisfy all their sexual desires and always be available. She will make them feel masculine, strong and on top of the world like a real man, like no man before. She will say and...

Thanks a lot for all your support exhausted it has meant a lot and made my day a couple of times. Well I just met him having to pick up my son for this weekend. Oh my god What a meek guy. I went over to shake his hand like a man. He gives me this half limp handshake and could barely look me...

Thanks exhausted. The more I read, compare and contrast. Specially what I've experienced after it ended, I no longer lean towards BPD as much anymore. She does fit BPD traits, but now she's showing more signs of being a covert narcissist. Some suggest narcissism is part of BPD. Only thing that...

I see her 4 times a week when I pick up and drop my son off. We have to stay in contact because of it. I keep the contact as low as possible. If she wants to hoover there's nothing I can do about that. She will have plenty of opportunity to do it. She also changed her profile picture with the...

I would block mine, but that would show her, she has some kind of power over me. Fvck that. She can suck his cawk on her profile picture and I still wouldn't block. There's no way I'm giving her the satisfaction

Yeah we both do. I'm glad you stuck to your guns. fvck her. I feel sorry for my replacement, he has no idea what's in store for him. At least she doesn't have to be jealous by the looks of him..she really downgraded on this one. He probably thinks he hit the jackpot

I've been in your shoes believe me. I was integrated into the 'family' as well with her 3 kids. Took them in as my own too. I was there for them because their father wasn't. I did everything for her which she was appreciative for the first 6 months. She left her husband for 18 years to be with...

As for how it is having a kid with her? 3 months in and so far so good except for the occasional rubbing it in my face she has moved on to a new replacement. I'm lucky she takes high pride in being a perfect mom. I just have to not rock the boat, because she will most likely paint me black to...

Inmates as in prison. Nobody can give any real estimate how many cluster b types are out there. Not only are they hard to diagnose, most don't seek treatment. You can have BPD without substance abuse/criminal tendencies/suicidal or other traits that will land you on a T's radar. If they are able...

Don't beat yourself up. These women are master manipulators and experts at finding a mark. They follow a script that works and there's no shame in falling for it. Most of us go into these relationship with open minds and hearts, because we are good people. Yeah I fvcked up and had a kid with...

I'd like to point out, that 1%-1.5% is a bad estimate, considering most borderlines don't seek help. They don't believe there's something wrong with them. My guess it's the very low functioning ones that end up becoming a statistic. Some sites have even suggested this There's even suggested...

You should see the **** my ex pulled after the breakup. A month after, she texts me she has a new boyfriend. Picking up my son next, she acted drunk from love making sure I saw how euphoric she was. Staging of his belongings right inside the porch door, to make sure I see he spends time there...

Marriage suggestions is common with these types. My ex suggested it too several times. I knew it was tied to her abandonment fear and the image she wanted to project to the world. Not because she had found the love of her life

My ex was very slick in the beginning. She played the 'I have broken wings from previous marriage of 18 years' real good. Her ex was a typical Narc who abused her, which now explains why it lasted 18 years. Her story was meant to elicit me to be a perfect boyfriend to her and treat her like a...