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I'm not even sure she's dating at this point, I'm more convinced something else is up. She was sick last week. I told her I don't want to catch what she has. She told me not to worry she's not kissing anybody. That didn't even make sense in that context. She also explained her daughter was sick...

I've concluded this chick is just batsh*t crazy. She's still showing a lot of interest and now she's even started to periodically adopt some of my attitudes and sayings. Only time I've experienced a girl doing this when I'm in a LTR with them. She goes to great lengths to explain why she's...

It's good to get out of your comfort zone once in a while and risk rejection.

I didn't wait. I have a policy of not dating co-workers I see very day, specially when they are sitting a few feet from me. I just decided, what the heck. As for meeting her. It's the gym not a date. We are there to work out not make out. Should I avoid her just because she turned me down? Who...

Tonight I got rejected by a co-worker who has shown a lot of interest over the last two months (no i didn't misread the signals). Apparently she's currently dating somebody. Could be an excuse could be true. This was her response to me "thanks for asking me, believe me I have sensed our...

Mornings are usually the hardest because we are more lucid and clear headed. We haven't started our daily routines yet or filled our heads with distractions. I sometimes think our minds work against us fighting back at letting go once we make some progress. We fell in love with the role we were...

[ My experience speaks against this description. BPD's may very well be reactive but when factoring in narcissism as co-morbidity which is more often the case, you can and will see premeditated action as well as manipulation. To give an example of my ex. Her ex husband is a dysregulated low...

I get what you're saying and maybe i'm just naive or stubborn. I know it happens a lot with BPDs from what I've read. She wants my respect above all. She knows if she tries to cheat on her current replacement I will start questioning her worth. It would go against everything she stood for when...

Nobody knows the ball park of how many cluster b's are out there. BPD is often misdiagnosed or undiagnosed. Factor in co-morbidity and a diagnosis becomes even harder. That's assuming all borderlines in any given country seeks therapeutic help to even begin to form a statistic. Google it

God I hope not. I really don't want another round of a one sided relationship with zero mutuality and appreciation.

There's nothing funny about relationships with cluster b women, but I have to admit this thread gave me a much needed laugh and not a condescending one either. Thanks OP The thing about cluster b women is, they find marks. If you do not have chink in your armor to exploit like the three N's...

I doubt she's going to hoover me, since I was the one who left her. If it was the other way around then she might. You have to remember these people are scared as **** of rejection. The more I show I could care less, the more likely she will assume I will reject her or even worse dating somebody...

It's because the things we experienced is so unbelievable, stuff like that simply doesn't happen or exist in their world. I've given up trying to explain things to people. The only place where one might get some understanding is online, with people that has had similar experiences. Don't beat...

Forums have helped me a lot to get some clarity and becoming thankful I got out. It's amazing how much you can see, when you get distance from it. Specially the covert manipulation I can see play out in her new relationship. She just manipulated her latest victim into moving in with him after...

I can whole heatedly say I no longer give a fvuck. 3 months out and I'm cured from this madness. She must sense it because now she calls instead of texting me about our son and tries to small talk. Even started to add smiley emoticons at the end to the texts she does send. Her contacting me is...

I wish mine was low functioning. She's between mild and medium perfectly able to keep the facade long enough to keep you in the relationship. Things happen gradually over the course of a long period. it sounds stupid but I envy you guys with the volatile ones. It would have been so much easier...

Perceived insults vs real insults is sometimes a fine line and is indeed a matter of perception. Sometimes it's not and the intent is clear. "Hahaha what a loser" for instance is pretty clear. Sometimes it's just sh!t tests between guys. I've seen plenty of instances of sensitive posters taking...

All you need to know is, people who act like an @ss online is neither balanced, happy or have grown as a person through their lifetime. There's nothing much more to it than that. They are not happy people.

Sounds like she was low functioning. That relationship was doomed the moment you entered it. I read these articles and they really resonated with me http://shrink4men.com/2012/03/08/crazy-*****-the-musical-the-abusive-womans-script-and-why-she-wont-be-different-with-the-next-guy/...

No. She is capable of love just not sustaining it. Her love was conditional of what she could get from me. Her lack of appreciation was a big relationship killer for me. I know I made the right call but it wasn't an easy one. I still have bad days where I wished I had handled the relationship...