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  1. ItsFate451

    Should I even say anything?

    Matched with a girl on tinder. Sent messages back and forth for about 10 min before asking her out. Asked her when she was free to get drinks. Below is our exchange. Me: When are you free to get drinks? Her: I’ll be there Tuesday. Me: Great! Let’s meet at Tuesday at 7. Her: Or Wednesday Me...
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    what to when she says maybe

    I agree. “Maybe idk” means no or if nothing else comes through then yes. Don’t bother contacting her again. It’s obvious her interest is low. Let her do all of the reaching out first. Let her bring up getting together.
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    Trying to change the plans.

    Have a date scheduled for tonight with a woman I met off tinder. We both agreed to meet at this bar at 8. Well earlier today, she messages me on tinder saying “let’s meet at 8:30. I stayed a little later for a meeting.” I took that as a minor red flag and told her we agreed to meet at 8. I...
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    Do women sabotage guys?

    No you’re not paranoid. Women have this mentality of “I don’t want him, but I don’t want other girls to like him either” you just gotta shrug it off sometimes.
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    Very confused... Looking for advice

    You let too much time go by without asking her out. When you first starting talking you should’ve asked out on a date and you would’ve had your answer right there. She asked for your number which is a good sign.
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    Will she give in eventually?

    That’s stalkerish behavior dude. Never show up unannounced. You should’ve called her and asked her out. Anything other than yes than you next her.
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    Having options work

    I have a story showing that having options really do work. I was out last Saturday celebrating a friends birthday. A girl I had my eye was also at this party. She would come over and talk to me or would stop me to talk if I walked past her. We would be talking for a couple minutes until another...
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    Weird Tinder Experience

    I never said I wasn’t paranoid. And I did “grow some guts” and got my ass out that car.
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    Weird Tinder Experience

    Yep. They sped off and turned on the street behind the apartment building. It was nice out and only took 5 min for my Uber to arrive so I wasn’t upset. And we were communicating on tinder. She unmatched me 5 min after she sped off.
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    Weird Tinder Experience

    Dude I think you need to learn how to read. Youre so Quick to call someone beta. I never said I was having her pick me up. I was already at her apartment(took an Uber) when she randomly said she was pulling up to me. If she was in a hurry to drop her friend off, she could’ve easily said that...
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    Weird Tinder Experience

    Now that you mention that, Idk what the hell I was thinking smh
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    Weird Tinder Experience

    YeaI’m pretty sure they were trying to rob me. My spider senses were tingling. She was super bubbly and polite while we were talking on the app and was straight aggressive when we met. I’m certain that wasn’t her apartment either.
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    Weird Tinder Experience

    Matched with a girl from tinder yesterday morning. Everything started out smooth. Had a lot of things in common etc. We eventually started talking about our love for food. I took that as an opportunity to ask her out on a date to get wings. She told me Sunday’s and Monday’s are her best days to...
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    Women say they want one thing but emotionally respond to the exact opposite.

    Sorry to hear that man. Just got NC. Trust me she will be back randomly texting you.
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    Women say they want one thing but emotionally respond to the exact opposite.

    Do you guys agree with this? For example when women say they want a guy to take her out, be nice to her, text her all the time etc but goes for the guy that does the exact opposite. What are some of your stories?
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    When other people c**k block you..

    What are some your stories of being c**k blocked? I remember one time I was at a local dive bar and I was playing beer pong with a very attractive woman. A lot of flirting was going on between us. Touching, laughing etc. There was this one guy she came with and he was constantly interrupting...
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    Opinions on "friends first" in this situation

    Good luck with that. You’re going to try to stick your tongue in her mouth but you’re going to fail each time. But if you enjoy the friend zone go right ahead.
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    Opinions on "friends first" in this situation

    Never agree to being friends. Now she gets what she wants and you don’t get what you want which is more. If she sent me that text wanting to be friends I would’ve told her straight up “I can’t just be your friend. Friend with benefits but not just friends. Hit me up if you ever change your...
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    How to Close in nightclubs

    In my opinion Nightclubs are the worst spots to pick up girls.
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    Contact out of the blue.

    A girl I was dating a few months ago contacted me out of the blue. All she said was “hey how are you?” This is after I went NC when she ignored me, when I asked her out on another date. Since she reached out I wanna ask her to come to my place but I kinda want to make her work for it after...
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