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Is it worth giving apps such as tinder or hot or not a go to meet new people? Never tempted me because of the worry to land on fake accounts or some weirdos

I know i can't change anything, but recently i have been feeling good, feeling like i was good looking when leaving the house after getting dressed up. A few years back i never got that feeling and i have been getting it more frequently. Not sure why exactly but it makes me also feel more...

I am rather curious to know what on a scale of 1 to 10 I am now, the last 2 - 3 years age has definitely favoured me in terms of looks. I thought of asking some girls I know how they would rate me but because they know me it could false the results. Posting a photo of myself on SS would also...

This discussion really has two poles: @BeExcellent 's point of view and @Tenacity 's. I don't fully agree with both of you, on one hand i don't think a unuversal unicorn who ticks all the boxes exists, on the other hand O believe that one can get more from a women than sexual pleasure. Nobody...

I am currently preparing physically to join the local volunteer fire brigade, and one thing you have to do is a certain amount of push ups but with your ellbows against your body. Do those make your pecs work more than regular push ups ?

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That seems about right. I also find myself in situations when I don't talk naturally but think of what inam going to say. And often that results in blanks or awkward unnatural conversation. I have practised asking questions and navigating around that subject letting the girl do most of the...

Not all the time, I feel like i need to get to know the girl a bit before starting kino or it would be awkward. And that is when usually I fyck up not getting further than small talk.

Somehow I feel like I don't always bring over the message I intend to. In other words, I might say something joking but the person i am talking tonthinks i am serious. I guess the problem is in facial espression and voice intonation. Another problem is when talking to girls i am actually...

How do you show interest gardually ? Like for me it is either hot or cold no in between, either i am interested or not. To be honest I am not that good at showing interest, i really need practice and girls i see often are ideal for this.

Over the past six months I have been rather lazy and having plans but not putting them into action. In college i have also been doing the bare minimum to get good enough grades to pass the semester. The only thing I have been disciplined with for the last 6 months was my workout routine. I...

Fair enough, but honestly i did not expect her to have 10kg extra since last time i saw her. Trust me that after a while on SS i would have at least used it as practice if you can call it so. But as soon as i saw her i was like no thanks... Essentially, with this post i wanted to say that in...

So true, but in some ways I would have preferred to keep her in mind as the "cute girl who had a crush on me". The older I get the more i find that most of the time trying to refresh your memory about events/people from the past is a bad idea. It often ruins what used to be nice or positive...

No you don't seem to understand, we met up in a friendly way because she moved and happened to be in the area. Last time i had seen her was over 2 years ago.

It was no waste of time, the last time i saw her was over 2 years ago. She said she was in the area and suggested to meet up nothing more. And i am happy i did see her again to be honest

Today I met up with this girl who had a crush on me and I realised how well i am doing currently. Back then she was cute but now she has put on weight and is not cute anymore lel Whereas I have been working out and keeping myself fit. I don't want to be a jerk for judging on physical...

Also, a large part of Sosuave is about self improvement. But if one has to be corrupt to have success with nowadays women it has nothing to do with self improvement. Most people on this forum are certainly not corrupt by nature and speeking for myself i do not really want to become...

It does make sense what you are saying, I see similar patterns within my generation (all this attention seeking on social media.. a pile of crap in my opinion). And to be honest I find it sad the way things are going... especially because I don't see myself becoming a player

How can I know if I am a quality person ? And if not how do I become one ?

Does this apply only in the US or all over the world? I live in France but unfortunately I am still young and don't have the experience to judge. To be honest I find it hard to believe that quality women are so rare these days.