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On my experience, the view of hookup culture as in a world where 80% of girls in college constantly hooking up 20% of guys over 4 years and traded like a bunch of cards didn't seem to quite fit. I always kept doubt as perhaps they are just hiding as an elite 20% go through 80% of the girls. But...

I think most readers of the manosphere has the ultimate goal of "being Alpha" and most understanding to be Alpha means to trigger real attraction in the woman, to be being desired - To be wanted; Not needed. When the example of Betas always share some trait of responsibility in the...

I don't think he was taking it as a hit to his value... quite the opposite. My interpretation (and most?) perceived the choices of the earlier years as the type of guys she really likes. Her explanation combine with 31 is the desire forced by circumstances than a real change in who she's really...

It does seem like this topic is starting to get caught in definitions and a discussion about looks with Stagger Lee. But I think the real question remains about the lessons coming out of the manosphere. And the question originally raised is if one lessons is to just be irresponsible adult man...

I don't think there's nothing to explore. If having responsible traits like having a corporate job, diligent, reliable, etc. in-and-of-itself makes you not be wanted till late 20's then it's anti-game, it's a disincentive. That does raises questions to explore along with talking about building...

Manosphere blogs posts seem to largely avoid exploring this in favor of the purported thrusts of the posts (IE serial killers posts is an example of dominance or something similar), but if responsible traits goes together that much, then what reason to not view responsible traits itself as beta...

This discussion is a great read. However, I think it did drifted a little from the original point. I think original topic is not only about why men are dropping out, but if the manosphere is also encouraging/teaching it. I think it is safe to say that the manosphere parts that most view as...

It's hard to find an exact post or blogger saying don't be accountable or quit your job. The reason why is because a lot is implied or derived as the ultimate conclusion of logic. If you read enough, you start to feel like that. The manosphere is a big tent party. At the same time, I'm pretty...

I'm not in college anymore. So I work now. This is the same girl I wrote way back last May. But I'll focus on the important part and why I'm writing again now. When I first arrived, we got along quite well with good rapport and everything. Then after working together to celebrate a...

While this is a great way to frame it. But it does get old when you're just start in some kind of new environment (like new job, starting college, new place to do your hobby) and *bam* enter "cold zone" like something 5 seconds of meeting and the person is someone who will have to be around me...

I get that why should I care about people who don't care about me. It just that this just means I have a trait about myself that I'm not able to put my finger on. Something that I am not aware about myself. Remembering it been with me for years and years, it would be good if I can give it...

This is triggered because a co-worker who started friendly is now a bunch of single word exchange at best. Now,I want to disclaim I'm not attracted to her. She fat and just not my type even if she wasn't. But it does bother me because it reminded me of a particular trait about myself over...

AsianLoverReturns, I know that beating him down would be nice, but all it would remove is the claim that he beat each of the 12 guys he beat (still 12-1). It won't defeat his main claim at all. Actually, he's using it to boost his argument.

How did you proven you point? It is very easy to get a hostile response when you throw offensive comments, especially on the internet. One can easily go and claim another demographic and you'll get a hostile response. Or just say that so and so is in denial and if so and so denies, you can...

Man wtf man. I didn't do anything to you and if I meet you in real life, you'll just toss me aside for being a inch too short? Plenty of my friends are 5' 7" or taller and I don't get into constant fights with them (including my roommate). One of my friends like over 6' 5" and on the rowing...

Yeah I read it, you can also take out that most birds are never truly happy with their man. I have to give myself a realistic assessment, I'm not that worse catch around, but I'm not superman either. Some of stuff by Roissy and others, like when he talked about women are not allowed to work...

Roissy's latest post on female hypergamy put me into thought. Does female hypergamy means a wants a guy who is "superior" to her? Like a 5 be happy with a 6? Or does female hypergamy means they want only the best? Like every girl 1-10 wants the 9 or 10 and only begrudgingly settle for the...

If you think this forum warps your mind, read the latest post from Roissy at his blog. He has another Chicks Digs Jerks post telling about how this one aloof, terse, and ****y guy with a little muscle ended up in a love triangle with one kill the other. The guy, wheels the girls with pure...

But isn't there alot of actors in Hollywood still trying to hit big after being there for years? I'm kinda just playing devil's advocate now. I can understand that to hit something big, you have to go way beyond the comfort zone unless you're really lucky. Still, since you are saying their...

I guess in my situation then, I'm still in a reasonable area, though I admit my GPA might **** that up. Make sense enough that one should only go to college for intellectual curiosity and/or practical need for a field. Just that, a lot aren't doing anything practical and few are that...