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"The grass is'nt always greener on the other side, The grass is greener where you water it..

I will be brief, long story short I have two exes, one ex wife and one ex girfriend. The ex wife has cused me some problems but nothing like the ex girlfriend. My ex girlfriend of 1 yr relationship, and have not been together for 3 months has decided along with my ex wife to destroy my new...

Iv'e been living with this woman for about 5 months, and slowly but surely finding out she's as crazy as my ex wife, Iv'e all been straight forward with her and told her I won't put up and don't have to put up with any bulls*%t. Any ideas on moving out without causing a lot of drama, I don't...

Thank you for your response. You have set me straight and now I know what to do. As far as mentioning another possible LTR, I am probably getting way ahead of myself, this is why I need to visit the forum more often and keep things in perspective and remember who is the prize, even at my age, I...

Heres the scoop, I have been divorced about 7-8 months and have been dating a lot. about 2 1/2 weeks ago I met a new girl that I have been spending a lot of time with and seems like it may turn out to possibly be something relatively long term. My question is should I feel uneasy about her...

Thank's Bible Belt, I believe you are right and I will figure out a way to make it happen. It should be good i've had a dry spell for a while since the old lady ran off. I sure hope she's got a couple of days to rest up she's gonna need it HA HA. I'll report back in due time.

Follow up from Need advice Quick Ok guy's, here go's. I had my first date with this women thats a few years older than myself (not a problem) I think she's pretty hot. I must mention she chose me to chat with and eventually go out on a date and I agreed, and knowing ahead of time that she...

Excellent reply to SXS post. I personally have experienced first hand the Dangers of Facebook while being married. In short as soon as my wife got her facebook account it was downhill from there. I had told her that it makes me uncomfortable knowing over half the people she is communicating with...

I have some pretty good luck with online dating as far as numbers go, (dates) but the women in my age group have fairly nice bods but they can't hide the age in their face. I just rack it all up to getting more experience and eventually getting to the younger stuff, I love it it keeps me highly...

Way to go guy's, I always feel great after reading the replies and getting different view points, I already have a fair amount of confidence, but after being in this forum and building my knowledge base, DAMN I'm having a lot of fun. This whole Match.com thing has worked out great for me so far...

Thank's for your opinion, It has givin me another way to look at the situation. I'll let you know how it go's. Thanks again.

Ok guy's I met this woman on Match.com, she is a few years older than me, which is not a big deal unless she's just not attractive. Secondly she has had her own business for quite a long time, and she is used to a upper scale life style, and Lives in a very upscale neighborhood. During our phone...

Keep up the good work, I am glad you reminded me of the law of reciprocation, I am aware of it, but some how over the years it had gotten lost amongst other laws that needed to be obeyed in order not to mess up my relationship. It sure is hard to take ownership of my screw ups, but i guess in...

Well said and completely understood. Another lesson learned, I need to have all this advice etched into my memory so when dealing with the women in my future I won't resort back to my old and self defeating ways. Props again!!!!!

All I can say is a very BIG thank you. It is difficult at best right now to figure what I have done wrong and what I will do in the future not to make these same mistakes. It is a blessing and I am truly thankful to have these items pointed out to me and explained what I was doing wrong. During...

IN fact it is always fabricated BS, giftwrapped, to extract power and control over you by creating emotional disequilibrium in YOU. She causes drama, of her own design, to watche you squirm. AS soon as you approach clarity or equilibrium, another drama is created to destabilized your...

Yes it all sounds true, thanks for the tips I will follow up on them, I can no longer waste my time screwing up in the future, I must handle my s&@t correctly or I will set my self up for failure. And failure is not an option I'm willing to deal with. So far I have met a number of women and at...

Damn that's awesome you nailed it dude, Thats the s#@t I had to put up with for years. Previous to working with High school kids, my X wife worked with autistic kids, I now can see where the dominant and entitled attitude comes from, I guess I should have been more observant. I'm still learning...

Wow, great post I just never really thought about it that way. It's funny you should mention the "caring professions" I have never really thought about it that way but I think your absoloutley right. My X wife that just left me was a high school administrator, she had to deal with lots of kids...

I believe her mother gave her some and she took out a personal loan for the rest. I honestly think she should have her head examined first and get that fixed then go ahead and get the surgery if she wanted but ,if she had her head fixed it is highly unlikely that she would have gone ahead with...