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Thats certainly valid.

So, Back when I hadn't been broken up with my ex long, I met this chick one day while doing a curbside pickup at a restaurant. I met her, we chatted while she was getting my food, and I was paying and such. I had a little rapport, and she made some comment about having nothing better to...

Ok, marinetti, I'm with you, but please explain. People on this forum keep/kept saying, don't use the word "date" or such. "Ask her to hang out and do ___ with you." I wanted to say, hey, I'd like to take you out to dinner or whatever", and make it feel more direct. So, which is it...

Aight, so check this. I had our mutual friend, call her up and invite her to watch the game next weekend. It wasn't like she was "calling on my behalf, because she invited the girl the week before, but she invited her too late. Our Mutual Friend = OMF So, OMF calls her, and says, hey...

Thanks for that response. My thought was. If she was kinda blowing me off, she would have kinda agreed to go MAYBE, but then maybe flake since I didn't set a specific time. (aka, that would kinda give her room to flake on and let it die.) Instead, she got all excited about the fact that I...

So, you guys prob saw my thread about asking this chick out. Question, did I just get blown off? So, I called the girl yesterday at her work. I had a question about my last visit, and then I also asked her out. I basically threw out something about a cool haunted corn maze thing not far...

Hey, ketostix, I tried to PM back, but it says you are full. Hope you see this post. So, I called the girl yesterday at her work. I had a question about my last visit, and then I also asked her out. I basically threw out something about a cool Haunted Corn maze thing not far from...

Where all da white people at? errr, posters?

Thanks, thats weeks away. I'm lookin to make contact this week. its been 3 months since I met the girl, so no chance she's seein me as desperate. I'm just trying to figure what to ask her to do.

Ok, so, if you wanna read, heres the link. <a href="http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1256924&posted=1#post1256924">The Story</a> Well, crap, I can't get the stupid thing to link. Not sure what I'm doing wrong. The jist is, this girl is attractive, and fairly solid, but...

jeez, can someone reply?

Noone has a good suggestion on what to ask this chick to do? APPARENTLY, just askin her out, is a bad idea, but noone seems to have a better idea. My thought was, to say hey, I'd like for us to hang out sometime. or, I'd like to take you out sometime. If she says yea, I'll tell her...

Is noone awake yet today? Why is me just asking her out a bad idea?

Anyone with suggestions? What can I "ask her out" to do? recap, she's like 25, 3yr old, responsible kinda girl at this point it seems.

Any valuable comments/suggestions?

Yes, hindsight is by definition 20/20. LOL. But, anyway, I didn't so, I must move along. In regards to separate situation, well in the past, our mutual friend has said she didn't wanna be in the middle of anything, and that I should just ask if I wanna ask. That was a long time ago, and...

Thats a very good point. I was just gonna "ask her out". Say hey, I'd like to take you out to dinner, or something. I've heard girls say before, that they wish a guy would just be up front about asking em out, and not say, "hey, lets hang out, or hey lets meet up", kinda stuff. Is...

I'm gonna try and give a ring tomorrow at her work and see if she's in.

well, diddly, I called, and she isn't working today. She was there both of the two times I've been in on a friday before.

Ok, so by my immediate post above, I do not think I'm being pushy by any stretch of the definition. Comments?