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    The height issue / self limiting belief

    Hey bud I know exactly how you feel, and I'll do you one better, I'm 5'0. I find that the best way to deal with it is to actually just joke about it. Your reply about your height and proximity to boobs is textbook something I would joke about. Another thing I like to do is if a chick says...
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    People who think it's easy to get girls annoy me

    Hey man first off I feel you, I really do. I'm in a similar situation, just two years younger than you, and I know it gets worse the older you get. I'm not a "DJ" or whatever, and I haven't gotten there myself yet but I think I'm a little ahead of you are because of one thing. I'm great...
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    Flint's Journey To Enlightenment - Field Journal

    So this is an entry based on last night. I went to this party and there were a lot of hot girls there. I've been trying to get better at KINO, and I've actually just begun seeing how effective it is (or it seems effective anyways). I was sitting with one of my friends at this table and at...
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    Flint's Journey To Enlightenment - Field Journal

    My Story Alright, so you know what I'm here to do, you know why I'm doing it, so here's my story. When I started my original journal which failed due to my lack of openness, I was ashamed and embaressed to tell you guys where I'm really coming from. I still am, and I hate even typing it...
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    Flint's Journey To Enlightenment - Field Journal

    Incase anyone noticed, yes I did start a journal earlier in the year. But it wasn't effective. And why wasn't it effective? Because I wasn't honest with you all. I felt embaressed spilling out my true situation, even to people who don't know me and will never meet me. In the end I didn't do...
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    I can't stand this not being able to get a girl thing

    You're absolutely wrong about what I said about growing a pair. I would argue that most people on this site wouldn't even need advice if they simple went for it all of the time. If you constantly push your boundaries you'll see for yourself what works and what doesn't work all of the time...
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    I can't stand this not being able to get a girl thing

    Your mindset is everything dude. You sound like you're absolutely tired and fed up with your situation right now. Have you reached the brink? Are you finally willing to do WHATEVER IT TAKES? Use this anger to motivate you. If you're that angry about this, if I told you to start working...
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    How to overcome the past and gain confidence?

    This was/is a big issue for me as well. I can't give you an answer that I can say definitely works because I'm in the process as well. But what I can tell you is that you've got to be willing to step out of your comfort zone and make mistakes. Once you know what you've got to do, you've got...
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    Nobody...NOBODY Wants You to Succeed

    Chalangeguyfan I thought what you wrote was very interesting actually, thank you. Thank you guys for the input I really appreciate it. When you're trying to go through life and make changes it's helpful to know if you're on the right track or not.
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    Nobody...NOBODY Wants You to Succeed

    Hey guys thanks for the input. Unbridled that's very interesting, I think you're right other people seem to be like a way to measure how you're doing in life. Donjuan11, In reference to #1 you're right, girls are very important, I didn't mean to make it sound like they weren't at all...
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    I seem hopeless, how can I make my life succeed?

    Honestly dude one of the things I notice is that when you're talking about how you say awkward things in convos and stuff it sounds like you're trying to be "normal" or "fit in". I used to think like that too. But why settle for being normal? You deserve better man! If you're in a...
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    Nobody...NOBODY Wants You to Succeed

    Hey guys I'm sure pretty much nobody knows me on this forum because I started a journal but then stopped writing in it and I don't post much. But rest assured I've been trying to get better at this stuff. I'd just like to share some of the things I've noticed so far along this journey. The...
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    My self-improvement program

    Hey man still reading. Great stuff!
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    Flint's Improvement Journal

    I thought I would reflect on how everything is going and what I've learned so far. I think the most difficult time that I'm having right now is coping with all of the girls I could have had but never did because of my issues. Every semester at school there was always at least one girl that I...
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    Tips for dominating college from day 1?

    Oh man what an opportunity you've got! I wish I knew some of this advice I'm about to give you when I first stepped onto campus. There are basically 2 things you need to do ensure success at college, and I learned these the hard way (took me three years to get it right!). #1: Be very...
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    My self-improvement program

    Hey man I'm just going to be brutally honest with you. There usually isn't some really complicated situation going on when a girl is getting physical with another guy, and not with you. She's probably just attracted to that guy for some reason (which you don't know since you don't know him...
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    Flint's Improvement Journal

    The reason I'm making this entry is because of a situation that happened to me last night, and I just wanted to make sure I played my cards right the entire time or whether I dropped the ball. Okay so here's the premise to this entry. There is this girl that I've been friends with over the...
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    Flint's Improvement Journal

    Alright so a few things to talk about. First off me and a really good friend of mine (who also has great game) went to NYC a few nights ago to this club with a few people. Tons of beautiful women everywhere, it was nuts. I also realized that it takes A game to succeed in NYC. I mean...
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    My self-improvement program

    Nice dude nice. That stinks about what happened with the kiss but again it was cool that you were so in the zone that you tried to pull that after just meeting her haha. Just a thought too, to me it seems like when you say the whole "hey I don't mean to overwhelm you" bit it sounds like...
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    Flint's Improvement Journal

    Alright sorry I haven't posted any updates in a while, but with graduation and everything I wasn't really approaching too much, or when I did I wouldn't post it at least. But I'll talk about last night right now. You ever have a night where you're just on fire, and you know you're on fire...
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