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After reading the helpful replies above, a lot of you are saying I should really focus on myself the most to feel better about myself and then as a side task, chat up girls to get used to it and become no more afraid of it. So I decided to do this to boost my confidence, I donno if this is...

Thanks for the reply NH, I might be totally wrong but I think what is damaging my self esteem is hating myself for no being able to approach and score, again I might be wrong. I hit the gym constantly, I'm built well, I have a good job as a manager at a big financial institution (rare for my...

Hi guys, I'm gonna force myself to get out of my comfort zone even though I feel like I'm at the bottom of the ocean now. I donno maybe you've read some of my previous postings but in summary I feel like no chick will ever want me :( Any advice for a newbie? Please note I'm not...

No bro I don't even look at the 8-10s because I know I won't get ****, let alone approaching them and making a fool out of myself. I honestly don't approach anyone as I'm scared I will get a harsh rejection that will confirm what's in my head (that I suck). I see some nice girls that I like...

I don't mean to hijack your thread but I couldn't help but mentioning: how you are complaining about how a girl is too clingy and how I'm complaining I wish I had a girl who would just ask how I'm doing, even once a week :*(

Thanks for the replies guys. I heard from many sources that a woman will always show subtle interest in a guy she is interested in. Can you tell me from experience (not from what you know) if this is true? The reason I think I'm doomed in the dating department is because no matter how...

Thanks for the reply man, I really appreciate it, I never felt so hopeless. Because they never look at me, when I see a girl I like I look at her of course because it gives me pleasure to look but they never look. Yes I don't approach, maybe once in the past year :( but not because I don't...

do you still have problems or did you get over them? I'm in a very similar situation and wish someone could help. I'm 31 years old from the UK and I don't know what to do. I don't even have friends, I'm built, and I mean strict diet and constant workout, I dress clean and smell clean. I always...