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    Did Too Much Too Early.... And Paying the Price

    Some Good Comments This feedback has been pretty good (except for the smarta$$ stuff about taking off shoes on the 10th date), and it reinforces what I already knew. I guess the reason that I'm rather frustrated is her completely blowing off my call. Even if she's seeing another guy, why is...
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    Did Too Much Too Early.... And Paying the Price

    Thanks for the Feedback I think you guys are right on the lack of kino. While she and I are both pretty conservative when it comes to sex, I probably could have done more during the DVD at her place. As it ended up, I held her for the duration of the movie, and then just kissed her good...
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    Did Too Much Too Early.... And Paying the Price

    Well, I goofed with a woman that I was quite attracted to. Through date number four, she had a high interest level and did what she could to spend time/date me, even if it meant adjusting her schedule. Our dates were fairly casual and consisted of cycling (both she and I ride a lot), and me...
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    Was she flirting?! Or Being nice?

    Same type of message again It seems that there are so many of these messages out there. Does this mean she likes me, or is she just being friendly. As stated before, IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER! If you like her and feel that there's some chemistry, make some sort of move. It's a huge...
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    Unconscious sign of low self-esteem?

    Need to Return to the Bar Sure, you should have followed up, but go back to the bar sometime and find out if there is interest. What do you have to lose? You know where she works.
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    flakiness

    Don't Even Try to Figure It Out I have quit over analyzing women and it helps so much. You just need to realize that they're different and you can't necessarily use logic to figure them out. Let go of the idea that they will always act rational, and you'll be much better off. Having said...
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    go in for kiss, she backs away. what to say?

    DO NOT insult her just because she won't kiss you as the last two posters suggested. Some women are a little guarded at first. In fact, I've found that many of those who wouldn't let me kiss them initially turned out to be the wildest later on. ;) The main thing is not to make a big deal...
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    go in for kiss, she backs away. what to say?

    I've had it happen, and I've just smiled big and said "you're difficult aren't you." Just don't make it seem like it bothered you - rather imply that she is playing hard to get (which she may be).
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    Excellent Book I'm Reading...

    When I say your subject heading, I suspected that was the book you were referring to. I loved it. Plus, you'll really think that this is funny, but I gave it to my mother, and she totally agrees with it. She saws that she can see how my upbring caused me to overemphasize being nice to...
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