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hahaha...yeah as of right now i've cut off all contact w/ her. I was/am interested in a relationship but unless she shows some more interest i'm not gonna bust my balls trying to get her. thanks

Kind of a long story but i'll make it as short as possible... Met a girl at the start of this school year, (september) at the time my friend was pursuing her so even though i was interested i didn't try anything..but she seemed interested in me. Kept staring at me when we were at my friends...

good job. What do you tell yourself when you start feeling the fear of the approach? do you use the 3 second rule?

hmm last 5: started weightlifting, gained around 40lbs of muscle. Got into one of Canada's best universities. Made alot of money treeplanting, but then spent it all. started to dress alot nicer in past 2 years. last year: became alot more sociable thanks to sosuave. joined the wrestling...

another lackluster day thanks for the replies. I think what i'll do is get my conrfidence up to the level where i can approach random strangers. I can already do it using some kind of opener based on an opinion, or another type of question, something like that. I still haven't been able to...

me: excuse me, can you tell me where you got those jeans? HB: oh my, it was a while ago, i think i got them at "store" me: yeah ok, i was wondering cause i'm thinking of buying a pair for this girl i know. How much were they? HB: I cant really remember, i think around 40-45 $ me: alright...

pretty ****ty outing...i did my usual hi's on the way to the stores, but people were SO surly that it kind of put a damper on my mood. So instead of going straight to the cold approaches i went around various stores and talked to the HB saleswomen. I did one cold approach, a HB 8.5, i asked...

thanks for the replies boys. I'm heading out now, i'll be back in a few hours and i'll let you know how it goes. later

While everyone else from Queens is off in the dominican or wherever enjoying the sunny beaches, i'll be trudging around cold, slushy Kingston weirding people out. lol. Anyways, my background : From ages 12-19 i had pretty bad acne which pretty much killed my confidence. So during that...

so, uh, how exactly does one get into this sexual state? Quit wanking it? walk around with a hard on? lol, sorry, but seriously could you give a better description of it, maybe some more examples? thanks

Yeah i've noticed the exact same thing...strange.

Ok takin a break tonight and going out for drinks with some buddies...might get laid but i'm not getting my hopes up. I think i've come a long way in terms of EC, i can hold it with pretty much anyone now, easily. Now i just have to get the smiling and saying hi done in the next few days.

haha well one was raving about the weather and how it was warm for january...and 1 was holding a hankerchief over his nose and i asked him what was wrong...he said he had a cold, and i gave a buck 50. LOL anyways, i only have 3 hellos today, i need 7 more so i'm going back out for a couple...

I get the exact same thing, people will actually go to an effort to avoid looking at you. I said 2 hellos so far today, neither responded though. I also talked to a couple bums...it seems the only people on the street who will make EC with you are the ones begging for change :( Oh well...

Day 1 is over...actually more of a half day but w.e...only got 4or 5 good solid EC's but it wasn't from lack of trying, everyone seems to find a way to look somewhere else. One good thing that happened was in psyc class i sat beside some cute chick i didn't know and talked to her for a bit...

Well i just got back from town...nobody really made EC at all, except for 1 guy around my age who i nodded to and he nodded back. I talked to a bunch of clerks just to get me more socialized. I find the hardest thing is that nobody wants to make EC with you..atleast not on the street. I'm...

Ok today i think i'll just take it easy, going into stores and stuff saying hellow to cashiers. Not to ask them about anything, just to say hi. Tommorow i shall start with random street walkers. Hopefully i can get around 20-25 cashiers today to build my confidence. Wish me luck!

I'm in HELL why not, i'll start today...so its just 50 hi's and EC for 1 week? Shouldn't be too hard...

Ok, so my friend's sister died this summer, and he broke up with his girlfriend on the same day as her death. He has been telling this to some girls, he thinks it will improve his chances. My question is - is this a good idea? Or do chicks dislike hearing about such sad events, and find...

Great post, i look forward to putting these theories into use. Too many of those examples apply to me...:mad: