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    How to deal with men?

    I try my best to be as normal and friendly as I can. In any case, if i am friendly, if I play the game or if I am confident, they always try to cause problems. But no, I don't think highly of my self. Are most of men that see in me an enemy because they perceive that I am better. I passed most...
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    How to deal with men?

    Testing me? Maybe you are referring only to the gym, but as I said, most men in most of the environment are trying just to cause me problems. You say I am failing, how exactley I am failing?
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    I don't enjoy going on dates.

    You know what? let's say that most of men who mansturbate are having your same problem. When we mansturbate, we basically are producing chemicals in our brain witch give us a lot o pleasure, expecially with porn. And so on, doing it for many many years, it basically became an addiction...
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    How to deal with men?

    Hi there, since I am trying my best to put myself in situation and improove myself, I always find a lot of men trying to putme down. I wrote this in anoter topic, but I would like to share my experiences with men, and see what you guys think about it. I write this in hopes of finding advice...
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    How approach women in a social environment without loose status?

    My skills are not impressive, as I stated I am not so successfull and I end to get a lot of refuses. About the girl, she basically just refused me with the body language, but today that same girl, was giving me a very nice smile looking me in the eyes. So, I think that was a **** test. In italy...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    I always stayed away from this dynamics, I alwasy tought that this hierarchy stuff was bull****. So basically I avoided men company for this reason, probably because I was scared. I wasnt to experiment to deal with men, and fit in the hierarchy .
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    How approach women in a social environment without loose status?

    Thank you all guys for the answers. About that receptionist, I really wasn't trying anything with her, I just was giving her my medic certificate (wich the gym requires) and thats it. That woman just got triggered because I just was speaking with her, and nothing else. So, I don't even like her...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    You are a source of healty wisdom. I read spirituality, psicology and pragmatism in you. Thanks. You know what? Probably this is the fact, that I have to deal with my incompetences. In some way, I was blaming women and not getting better because the attachment I had towards the idea that: "I am...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    Actually i am not starting from zero. I have a stile, I am confident, I know something about girls. Let's say, tah I had my successess, but many fails. I got so many good occasions, and even proposes, I even ended refusing many girls attention. But my point, my goal, is to be confident to bring...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    Thanks a lot for your answer. Yes I'll do everything you told me. Thanks
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    I was thinking the exacltey same thing. In fact the fact that each time women ghosted me on the phone, was very frustrating, and I tought a lot of times that I hate this dinamic. I never tought that in fact is just a waste of time, and that I have to conclude right in the moment. One of the...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    Approaching women (in both nightlife venues and non-bar venues) is a good thing. I like @Alucard88Cool forum! is reading some books. I do agree that being an approacher is better than being solely a reader, video watcher, and course taker. I think it is good to combine the two. It is possible...
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    How approach women in a social environment without loose status?

    While I used to approach women on the street, I found very difficult approach them on a specific social environment. For example at the university or at the gym. In this kind of situation I always ended being a guy who attract a lot of women, but I also feel stuck in this particular situation...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    Thanks, basically what you are telling me is to see these men as an opportunity to shape my social muscles instead to feel annoied by them. Thats a nice perspective, and it surely is an opportunity. Thanks
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    I see, thanks for your advice. I guess you are from Italy, I am too, I am from Rome, what bout you? Anyway, regarding for what you say, you are probably right. I mean, due to the prospective to seduce women, I think to have some kind of guideline is better. But if I think about it well, all the...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    Thanks for your answer, you seem to get to the point. BAsically my situation is not so bad, but not so good too. Basically, I am still like the "cool guy", I am self confident, I have my dressing style, and I approached many girls in my life. The point is that basically my situation is: I...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    Yeah, I just started the gym today :D Yes,I know very well analysis paralysis, in fact to overcome that I feel is one of the most difficut. One thing I would like to ask help for, is how to deal with toxic dominant men? One of my biggest problem in social places is this. In fact, women tend to...
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    Probably about pair bonding you are right, for other things you said you came up to presumption, but is ok, thanks for your answer. So I'll try to focus more in this area of the game, about how to connect with women.
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    36 years old, and getting redpilled

    Hi guys, I would like to introduce my self first and write and my journey to the redpill. After years looking for people to speak about this stuff, I ended find this forum, and finally I feel the freedom to say what I can't in any other context. Thank you guys for reading. After my father...
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