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    Anybody ever have this?

    Ok it starts with a gradual elevation of attraction. Theres that one date/hook up. After that everytime you see each other its all awkward? For no apparent reason too (night before went pretty normal)? Are there any ways to stop that from happening or some way to break the ice?
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    Love of life

    Excellent tip. This deals a lot with the humanistic school of thought in regards to human psychology and development. Self-actualization of your goals is important, and only YOU know what can make you happy. I like the theories regarding this concept because they are extremely flexible and...
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    Hardest thing for AFC's

    ehh I'm just gonna have to say confidence. Even though I've progressed a lot, I've also learned the difference between REAL confidence and fake confidence. I experienced that on the outside I still manage to keep my composure and what not...but inside I'm just breaking down (lol I sound like...
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    Creating Sexual Tension

    In the few months that I've spent reading this site I've picked up quite a few good techniques in the general of sense of "egging women on" and "creating tension". I like the whole idea of playing keep away and hard to get on the man's side. If you can do it successfully I think it will almost...
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    Women testing you

    heh ok first replier....sorry buddy I don't know what your thinking or what kind of stuck up women that can act like emotional punching bags like that but just out right making fun of a woman's weight in no particular funny way is just BS. I don't think I can accept it at all. 2nd and 3rd...
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    Women testing you

    I just read the SoSuave article on How and Why Women Test You. I'd recommend it to everyone. My question is, what are some creative responses to these types of situations. I loved the one in the article about the # thing. But what if the situation is different? I'm in a school environment...
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    Dating her friends

    Hah yeah u guys are right...I'm not even close to being a DJ yet and here I am wanting them both? Heh I think the reason why I asked this is not because I truely want them both, I just want one. CAN'T F*ING PICK THO. So hard...oh well tomorrow brings new adventures I guess.
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    Dating her friends

    I like this one girl and I'm going to ask her out this week, but just recently, her not too bad looking friend has been hitting on me as well. IL is pretty peak with both of them...I'm sure I could get either one. The problem: they're best friends. I know how girls like to gossip and *****...
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    Improving yourself

    Does improving yourself require you to take on at least a somewhat negative attitude? I mean think about it....you're not happy with the way you are now....thats why you're trying to make a change. People workout because they think they're wimpy. People try to get chicks because they think...
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    Intimidation

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    Intimidation

    Alright so this happened to me once before a long time ago and just now happened again. I was around this one girl I'm into and she made mention that I have my license now and blah blah blah. I'm a junior in highschool but I just turned 16 so I can't get my license quite yet. Why is this...
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    Fuzzy Warm Memories

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    Fuzzy Warm Memories

    Oh and on second thought this brings up another important question. How do u easy the tension/break the ice in general. This is always where I seem to go wrong. It'll always be rapport rapport rapport hook up and then next day in school or whatever we're like afraid of each other. Sometimes I...
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    Fuzzy Warm Memories

    So I've been trying to get (back) with this one girl. She's sort of my oneitis but I'm making sure to mack on as many other girls as possible too, just to eliminate as much AFCness as possible. Anyway, we met each other, built rapport very quickly, and finally hooked up at a dance like two weeks...
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    I tend to daydream alot

    This sounds stupid but I really can't stop daydreaming. Either I'm sitting in class or listening to CDs or whatever and I just start fantisizing. Usually about chicks. Thats not good. Probably creates some unwanted oneitis there and what not. Might be killing in ambitions. I dunno you tell me...
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    The Official Newbie Dance Thread

    Yeah I agree with Bombshell...just seriously go nuts and u'll be fine. Although maybe a few verrry basic techniques wouldn't hurt. If you want to memorize an entire dance routine then be my guest but I personally think that looks kinda goofy. Just learn a few simple things and incorporate them...
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    Homecoming...

    I hear ya...feel the same way pretty much. Its just weird how I told all her friends that I wasn't interested and then turn around the next day and ask her out. I just know if I were her I'd probably see this sudden change of heart as...ohhh he knows I like him now and he's going to take the...
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    Homecoming...

    I was planning on going to homecoming this year. Didn't decide exactly with who. Maybe this OK chick or just go stag and hit on chicks there. There is this one other girl I have a semi-oneitis on but my friend told me she already had a date for homecoming. Or so I thought. 2 weeks before the...
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    yeah - no - maybe so

    Yeah do that...but I definetely hear. Chicks throw that **** at you all the time. So confusing. Anybody wanna fill this one? Honestly? Why do u chicks play this femine version of ganji games with you? I really don't think women are THAT calculating that they would be "testing" you...isn't there...
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    Asking somebody out

    This chick in my class is totally into me and I'm gonna ask her out tomorrow before class starts. Not that it probably matters too much at this point but how should I do it? I've got like 5 minutes to talk to her. Should I a.) say hey and pretty much skip right to business b.) time it so...
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