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Hey Guys, I've run into a bit of a career rut right now and everyone around me knows it. I have a Master's Degree in Mechanical Engineering and I'm underemployed. I've got a few irons in the fire, and am going through the application/interview process for 2 other positions right now. One...

I snipped out the irrelevant parts. This site is a spectrum. You've got the AFCs or rAFCs who come here looking for help and inspiration. You've got people like you who are looking for a middle ground. And then you have people who are just looking to notch their bedpost. What you are...

Bingo! Give the man a prize! My last LTR, we actually split for about 2 weeks because of her "best friend's" influence on her. Her so-called friend (who she bad-mouthed later on) convinced her to buy in to that whole "Secret"-type craze. I should have recognized it then and never gotten...

Scaramouche, Scaramouche will you do the Fandango? Seriously though...I had completely left the site during this relationship. I went into the relationship as a little more than a recovering AFC, and then I slowly let it all go as she tightened her grip. I'm back because I realize that I...

I know I'm not the only one. So for you, did she exhibit "Cluster B" characteristics? I'm not sure mine was BPD, but she definitely has a history of being a victim and suffers from PTSD. If I was smarter I would have left it for what it was at the beginning, a fling.

Okay, I've got some time at home, and I figured I'd add a quick addendum to this post, since it was originally typed sitting in a cold chamber on my Blackberry. When you See Her DO NOT FREAK OUT. It doesn't matter if you're a 5'2", 100lb weakling and when you see her she's with a 6'2" 240lb...

Fellas, I'll start this by saying I'm no Don Juan. I'm a recovering AFC at best. Especially since I left my latest LTR of just over a year and a half. I say "left" but in reality I was torn from it kicking and screaming. She had many of the characteristics of a "Cluster B" and suffers from...

From a pick-up perspective it really depends on what you are trying to achieve. If you're really only looking to fvck her and get out, then just walk through the door. Reference Vatoloco's Observation Log across the way in the Discussion forum. If I'm out clubbing or going to bars, I'm the...

Hey guys! I was out last week with a friend of mine who is a natural and I'll tell you what, that took my game to a WHOLE new level. I realized the importance of a wing who knows what they're doing. So if any of you guys are from the Detroit/Windsor area and are in need of a wing, hit me up!

Hey All! :up: Just wanted to vent a little bit of frustration. I #-closed a girl on Friday (two actually, but this is only about one of them). Texted with her a bit Saturday. Then texted today again during the day back and forth, and talked to her this evening. So this evening I called...

This stuck out for me. I've battled my weight for my whole life. I was a chubby kid, and it didn't help that I had a mother who would bribe us with food after yelling at us. But that doesn't matter. My inspiration is my sister. She did it. She was always a chubby kid, went through the same...

A friend of mine summed this whole idea up in one phrase during his commencement speech to his U of M Dearborn class this year. "Thoughts become things." Powerful, next level sh*t.