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Thanks guys, im going to ignore her just like before

What do you mean I'm not ready? As I mentioned, I tried to make my move, sent her a message, and she didn't see it, just like my previous ones. That's why I'm confused – there's interest in one place and disinterest in another. She posted almost exactly what I mentioned in the original post...

I'm not saying it like that, man. You don't need to address it that way. I just wanted to understand this post better and explain that it couldn't be about anyone else but me.

But it was literally about me, man. She used my name and my nickname, which is extremely specific.

How can it mean nothing if she was saying all those things in her post? I can definitely continue doing what I was doing, which is not talking to her. But I wanted to know an approach for this situation, the social media post. That's the main point.

I have her number and mainly talk to her through it. The Instagram example was just another instance where I sent her a happy birthday message. I was already ignoring her existence, but the issue is that she posted a text about me on her social media, and I wanted to know if this meant...

Okay, but I would appreciate an explanation.

So, a few years ago, still in high school, I used to talk to this girl. She's beautiful and was quite popular. We were very close at that time and almost had something, she was interested in me, we went out, talked about everything, etc. In the end, due to some issues at the time, it didn't work...

Thanks man, im not contacting her anymore.

Maybe some friends might think it's weird? Lol. I spent a couple of weeks talking about that woman, and the next day I'd be with someone else.

Like, coming out of something I tried for a long time and then instantly going after someone else. Is that weird or not really? Not that I see a problem with it.

By the way, why did she kiss me on Friday if it was all a test of availability that I failed?

Thanks for all the help, you and everyone. I'll follow your advice and stop talking to her. Would it be weird if I tried to meet another woman already?

What do you think would happen if I asked her out today?

Yes, I wouldn't mind all that much. I was too anxious.

It's true, but if it was just an interest in sex I really would have gotten over it and discarded it. The dates were productive, I enjoyed getting to know her...

I'm already at college, lol. And I've had girlfriends before. My interest in a relationship came from her because I hadn't felt what I felt with her for a long time. She has a personality that I thought was great.

No, no, I thought about the relationship because of her personality and demeanor, not her appearance. I didn't understand the part about the "foregone conclusion." How could I do this "course of several months" thing if I can't message her, go out with her, offer my time, or anything like that...

I just wish that the things I try would work out sometimes. Not just always about gaining experience. It should really work out at least once... :(

I have a few considerations. Do you think she was trying to manipulate me by pretending to be interested? Why did she kiss me like THAT on Friday? She seemed VERY into it, you know? Almost melting, she seemed like a lovestruck teenager. It didn't seem fake... And about waiting for her, I'm not...