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That is a waste of the college experience. The on campus experience that a college/university can offer should make the tech methods not necessary. The tech methods were starting to become relevant when I was in college. During the 2001-2005 era, there were dating websites. Plenty of Fish...

Connection is better and most girls are going to be put off to drunk one night stands to a random guy at a party unless the timing is right.

Since (as I said) I've never been drunk (nor do I have any desire to), that's the main reason I said college parties sound miserable. For me, the purpose of a college party would have been to get action (yet as you pointed out, action is unlikely for non-Greek). In addition to the story I...

That has happened to me as well. It's a disappointment. Dating and sales or marketing have a lot in common but aren't perfect analogies. I disagree with a process. Too much rejection is going to be psychologically damaging. This is true both for men trying to date and for sales reps. In...

That's impressive that you got laid at the majority of college parties that you attended. I was still in nice guy recovery from my upbringing during at least part of college and I think that impacted my outcomes at college parties, especially in freshman-sophomore years. There were other factors...

I got laid at pretty much every college party, but you are better off meeting them in class tbh.

It depends. I do think that they don't live up to the hype for the vast majority of men. There's a difference between not living up to the hype and miserable. Even in Greek Life, there's a reason why the fraternity and sorority members tend to form committed relationships. It's easier for them...

As someone who's never been drunk (and has no desire to get drunk), college parties sound miserable (and I am glad I never went to a college party)

Male college students would be better off trying to get first dates in classes rather than at off campus parties. Off campus parties are inefficient for most men for that. If you're a good looking, 'Chad' type, then you have a better chance. Most of the mid-tier guys are going to get drunk and...

I dated a girl from one of my college classes briefly. She wouldn't even let me touch her backside (or kiss her), let alone have sex. I dumped her after about a week. In many cases though, you're right, finding a girlfriend from class can lead to sex. You're right about frat brothers and...

The reality of college sex is far from its fantasy. The type off campus college party at some rented house near campus or in a well known apartment complex filled with students is less likely to lead to sex than alcohol intoxication. Less sex happens at off campus residence parties than one...

I got free sex way easier in college/pre-25 compared to post-25. I've only had free sex one time post-25. Still, getting free sex was a challenge pre-25. For every free lay I got from hookup websites, I'd estimate I wasted 100+ hours on fruitless endeavors on the hookup websites.

On the surface, it would be appear getting laid in college is extremely easy (compared to the real world). However, as has been pointed out on this forum before (I believe @SW15 was who pointed this out; possibly others too), the monogamous long-term girlfriend is how the typical college male...

I would have to remember some hottie's maiden name from 20 years ago. That's not always easy. That has helped me with some in the past but I can't get every female that way. Some people also manage to get their names removed from those too. Also, some of those websites are a bit shady. True...

Op has a point, but the majority of men will not get the opportunity to experience this post college boom. Most men are just better off capitalizing in college or pre 25 years then expecting another wave after their twenties.

I can't speak for everyone else's experiences but I think most adult men would struggle to match the opportunities afforded to them in college. I lived in a co-ed dorm for two years and there were young, hot, eager to have fun girls everywhere. In the lobby, roaming the floors, in the men's...

So this was what 2013? I don't think girls back then were as dedicated about fitness and dietary habits as girls today that grew up with tiktok. So the girls I been with thus far have none of the cons you listed above

I go to an expensive gym and the older women there do turn eyes. It is all about the individual at the end of the day. I can tell if an 18-20 year old girl is just living off her youth and not taking care of herself on the inside. Even in my college fraternity, we had a story or something...

There are various public people-searching websites where even if you search by a maiden name, it will likely pull up the woman (and show you her AKAs). That's one way to find the married name of your former classmates.

There are 18-23 year old females that are doing well based on the fact that they are 18-23. I have seen some social media profiles in more recent years of some of the hotties from my "Hot Girl U" college attendance era of 2001-2005. Some aged well and some did not. These are women who are now...