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I have learned a lot of hard truths from SS, that’s for sure. Because I found out that I had PIED 10 years ago and felt that I was too damaged from all of the porn and masturbation for seduction to ever give me the results I’m looking for. I’ve lost close to 40 lbs of body fat so even though I...

You have been on SoSuave for 3 years. What have you actually learned on SoSuave? In the last 15 years, why haven't you used the internet to learn seduction? Why haven't you lifted weights/played a sport? Attracting women is about looks first. Money, status, and personality also help, but you...

I live in America and like SW15, I disagree and think that there’s absolutely pressure to settle down and get married in America. I’ll try and summarize it the best I can because posts tend to get long when I explain it, but I saw friends get rejected starting back in elementary with innocent...

I remember a time when a woman (born the same year as me) said once a man reaches a certain age and hasn't been married, it makes a woman wonder what's wrong with him (she wasn't saying that about me specifically; she was speaking in generalities). I (for the most part) have never been the type...

Player lifestyles are frowned upon outside of a big city? I was raised in a small town (population below 20 thousand). My childhood house was only a few miles away from farmland. Yet the player lifestyle was huge at my high school (Even though I didn't partake. Had I gone to high school parties...

It depends on how you actually do cold calling. I agree, most companies do not know how to do this... just like most men do not know how to do cold approach. A company that does a sh1t job of cold calling appear to be poorly run: men who do a sh1t job of cold approach appear to be of poor...

Yeah, Craigslist worked for me. I had sex with 5 broads from Craigslist during college. I posted niche ads. Niche ads disqualified a lot of broads. But at the same time, if a woman happened to fit the description of my niche ad, she'd be more likely to reply (compared to if I had posted a...

I've used Bumble before. I like how Bumble is set up so that the woman has to send the first message. I have had broads message me on Bumble (but nothing's ever come of it). I met 2 girls on OkCupid back in college. One I had 2 dates with. The other one went cold on me after our first date (I...

It's true that I do not like to stay up late. I have disliked it more as I have aged though I didn't even like it in my teens and the first half of my 20s. Do you know how I dealt with that? I spent the 2000s and early 2010s going to college parties and bars, which did require me to have...

Sad but true. The only time an in-person ask out has worked was with the super strange girl in one of my college classes (the girl I ended up having to dump after a week). All my other "free" successes have come from either tech methods, the woman making the move on me, or it just sort of...

Big USA city, post-college game is not a cure for those who have difficult times in high school and college. Plenty of men have limited success in college and in big USA cities after college.

I talk a lot about Logistics Access Retention These things have made a huge difference for me personally especially in the last 4-6 years. Your location (Logistics)) makes a huge difference if a place doesn't work for you dating-wise then you may want to venture out. I have mentioned it to...

You're right, a total waste of the college experience. But since tech methods were the only way I got laid in college, that'd suggest I couldn't have gotten laid any other way. Had I been born 20 years sooner (or even 10 years sooner), I likely never would have gotten laid in college (as the...

That is a waste of the college experience. The on campus experience that a college/university can offer should make the tech methods not necessary. The tech methods were starting to become relevant when I was in college. During the 2001-2005 era, there were dating websites. Plenty of Fish...

Connection is better and most girls are going to be put off to drunk one night stands to a random guy at a party unless the timing is right.

Since (as I said) I've never been drunk (nor do I have any desire to), that's the main reason I said college parties sound miserable. For me, the purpose of a college party would have been to get action (yet as you pointed out, action is unlikely for non-Greek). In addition to the story I...

That has happened to me as well. It's a disappointment. Dating and sales or marketing have a lot in common but aren't perfect analogies. I disagree with a process. Too much rejection is going to be psychologically damaging. This is true both for men trying to date and for sales reps. In...

That's impressive that you got laid at the majority of college parties that you attended. I was still in nice guy recovery from my upbringing during at least part of college and I think that impacted my outcomes at college parties, especially in freshman-sophomore years. There were other factors...

I got laid at pretty much every college party, but you are better off meeting them in class tbh.

It depends. I do think that they don't live up to the hype for the vast majority of men. There's a difference between not living up to the hype and miserable. Even in Greek Life, there's a reason why the fraternity and sorority members tend to form committed relationships. It's easier for them...