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She could have saved herself a lot of time and just wrote: "I will drop you as soon as I don't get my way." If you're going to talk like a HB10, at least have the image to back it up with...

Well said.

Delete it immediately...out of sight, out of mind.

What kind of clown-f*ckery is that? I would be pissed as hell... I have heard of some crazy ****, but that is right up there near the top of the list dude. Did she just act all super confident that you were gonna greet her with arms open? I am really struggling to make sense out of what could...

Yes, you have to start over. I am on day 1 myself...but that is because I had to get my stuff back from her. I should have done it right after we broke up, but that is hindsight. I was on day 26, so trust me...I know, it blows hard. It will get easier, trust me. You were not happy when she...

Sounds like you're on the right track dude... hang in there!

You don't ask her out for a cup of coffee, because you don't know she misses you...because you don't answer or respond to her call. I am starting to feel like a broken record. She probably is having second thoughts about the breakup, but you can't be sure why she is having second thoughts. Not...

It means that she is seeking comfort...NC won't be easy for her either, but don't break contact for the entire 60 days...I'm telling you! They all will contact you...I have never had a relationship end where they didn't contact me...I don't care how bad the breakup was. It could very well mean...

Remember...NC is not to punish her, but rather to help you. I know a lot of people like to think of it in terms of winning and losing, and that is fine...if the intention is not to reunite with her. The goal should not be to make her beg for a predetermined period of time and then answer in...

Its all fun and games until you get sued for sexual harassment... Don't think it can't happen either. As soon as one of them wants something or gets pissed at you over something totally unrelated, they have all the leverage they need to destroy you. I would advise you rethink your theory that...

Her first contact (the call) was to pull you back in...to make you think about her because she was feeling insecure. You fell into the trap by answering. Her second contact (the text after you called) was to boost her ego. When you initiated and maintained NC, she was disempowered...probably...

Agreed... its going to suck for a little while dude. Acknowledge that it is going to suck, but find that strength to persevere... You will be glad that you did. Its fvcked up that she cheated on you, and you made the right decision by ending it. You might be wishing that you had not broke it...

I would be lying if I said I didn't feel extremely nervous... There is definitely still something there, but I am not going to let emotion affect my judgement or conflict with rational thought regarding the situation. I handled myself extremely well if I say so myself...better than her for sure...

Do women think we buy into their sh*t? NC Day 0 So, as I said in a previous post, I went to get my keys and my parking pass back from my ex who was supposed to put it in her mailbox. I had told her I would be there at 12:00 noon on the dot. I pull up, check the mailbox and guess what is in...

Natural game... I don't think I have tried any other approach, but if it works why change it right? Honestly, I don't believe it is so much what you say as much as it is how you say it and how confident you are...

Back to 0 So I made a calculated decision to contact my ex today. As I had mentioned before, I had left my spare keys and parking pass for my apartment complex at her place and was originally planning to wait until the full 60 days of NC before contacting her to get them. I thought about this...

No Contact: Day 24 I am not really sure why I am writing this, but I guess venting here beats the hell out of contacting the ex. It has been exactly a week since my ex emailed me. This is what she sent: --Hey (my name), Very random, but I wanted to thank you for leaving that 'gamma...

No Contact: Day 22 Hey guys, I am sort of new here...well, I have been spectating for several months but just now registered so I could post. So here is my story: Me and my girl had been dating for just over a year and seven months when we broke up Oct 18th. I am not really sure who broke...