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I appreciate all the comments good sirs. I know I ****ed up not escalating. I'm going to have one last chance with her tonight, I'm gonna make the most of it

Another detail I'll mention is she goes to church and is a strong christian. She doesn't really drink or go out, so I don't know if that changes the game with a 20 year old girl. But I know I messed up not escalating, that's one skill I lack in. No opportunity ever really felt right

I tried looking up threads on the topic but I decided to go ahead and make a new thread anyway. I appreciate any help and advice! Long story short... Me and this girl from work went on 4 dates within about 3 weeks and things seemed to be moving along well. One mistake I made was not doing...

I've kept contact minimal this evening (not too unusually) and just got the "didn't mess up, I hope..." text. So no worries about the interest level. Still need to back off and cut off availability some

Alright thanks man

You're right I am only 18, so I guess I am a newbie haha. Thank you guys. I have started becoming dependent on her and its taken your outside views to show me. I'm going to go back to focusing on myself and my own life a bit more. Thanks again!

I trust you man, I realize that now. Confidence isn't a problem (atleast acting like it), obviously there is some insecurity though. I meant to say stop making myself available all the time. I'm going to work on that and I won't be making plans/contacting her for a while. Thanks a lot for...

Thanks Joverby, thats exactly why I decided to post on here. Haha as bad as it may sound, I do not smother her or over contact her. Most of the time she contacts first and I usually don't respond back for a while. One problem is that we do hang out every day. Its unavoidable that we're...

No I wouldn't Joverby, I understand what you're saying though. I wasn't calling her to ask her to come to lunch. Really I was calling her to find out what she was doing. Because of some insecurity like you said. I know that is one problem that could mess up our relationship. What do I do...

Yea man you're right. I know hangin out everyday is a bad thing, I noticed that when I typed it out haha. I have no problem with her doing her own thing. She is the one that wants to hang out all the time (until today). The phone call wouldn't have been clingy or needy, trust me I'm not a...

Haha ok I guess to put it better, I dont act like it on the outside. I was calling to see what was up and if she was feeling alright or whatever. I dont know if she was at work. She didn't have to work until later, but she might have gotten called in early. If that was the case though I'm...

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 months and everything has been great. I'm never clingy or needy and she still texts/calls me first most of the time. It does seem like the IL has started to go down a tiny bit, but I don't really figure that to be a huge deal since we're a...