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    has anyone ever been speeddating?

    Ok,Maxtro.. Most times i steer the conversation in the beginning, just by asking different questions, and after a while ( 2 questions).. i let the girl do the talking... you will see a different kind of attention .. because you're different than all other guys.. and be aware of non-verbal...
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    Where are these slvts?

    You have to be more sexual or physical, with the girls, i've got a reversed experience, went totally sexual with a girl, and see went crazy/hot..and it was a ONS!!!... But the next morning i went into talking mode.. see went cold, and left.. never seen her again.. don't wanna talk.. i was...
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    contact her or just wait

    ok, she wasn't married or attached, i know for sure....i think she' s maybe a female player....but maybe the distance between us did her "flake out".. but she was also a girl who loves to go out...and ofcourse i ve enjoyed the moment:) getting a ONS and no strings attached.., but is was...
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    contact her or just wait

    yup, the situation was very strange, just in the last minute or so, like i will leave you now, and " went cold" no kisses, and bye bye... everything i achieved, just gone... it happen't before with my ex-gf.. from hot to cold.. and than no contact /email/sms..( is this a way of acting for all...
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    contact her or just wait

    instant update: See came all the way to my place, we've dated (went to live-music event). afterwards we chilled at my place, we went the whole way (kissed,f**ked.) But this morning she turned cold on me, she was laughing etc and very ****y, but when she left, she went from hot to cold. she...
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    has anyone ever been speeddating?

    I don't recommend drinking, it's up to you, but you'll have a bad breath and if you drink too much you will talk crap....i always stay at water /cola or something like that....why do you need drinking?(alcohol) Other people make there own choice wheter they are drinking or not, but plz don't...
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    has anyone ever been speeddating?

    yup, its 1:1 but the girls are hard to get (playing hard to get) at a speeddating event, most girls will have around 10 matches because every guys fills in "yes"... even the ugly girls are getting a bunch of telephone-numbers... it's a hard datinggame.... and another thing is" the girls got...
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    has anyone ever been speeddating?

    did speeddating serveral times, i met my ex-girlfriend on a speeddate, but i warn you....... girls are very hard to get there (they play games), to many other guys.. ... in other words.. you have to have a plan... but it is a very good place to practice small talks, so give it a try, and...
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    contact her or just wait

    allright, question now.. should i contact her tommorow? or should i wait? I think wait till the date.. but on the other hand, maybe she will flake out because i waited 8 days to contact her... (something like...: you didn't contact me... so its obvious you're not very interested)..p.s she...
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    contact her or just wait

    Hey Jophil, with "What do you mean , " ..gave her some options.." ?" = some places where we could meet each other.... so halfway /at her place/ at my house, but see choose to drive 90 miles:)....
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    contact her or just wait

    Thanks for the advice Joe..i think i will contact her friday-evening ,somebody with a different advice?
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    contact her or just wait

    it's scheduled this weekend and the appointment was made friday (so a week between scheduling and the date)
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    contact her or just wait

    Hello guys, i have got a little question her for you: I've met a nice girl on a vacation, kissed her etc...... see seems to have a very high IL, because see will drive 140 kilometres ( about 65 miles i've i am correct).. to my house soon... i've set up a date with her in my hometown( i...
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    Speeddating

    allright, some extra info about the situation i have had met a girl before at some SD event, and i had a relationship with her for about 4 months... this relationship went wrong without a good reason.... the girl just came by and ended the relationship??? but nowadays getting a date on...
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    Speeddating

    Thanks for you're reply Espi, But i did that already:)... and i am a pretty confident guy, and i have talked to some girls before the event..so thats why i am so suprised about " no matches"....
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    Speeddating

    Hello fellows, I have got a question , i have been on a speeddate recently, in the past i was matched up with some girls (even had a relationship for about 4 months) But nowadays, i don''t even get a date out of a speeddate event... what's the problem here?? (p.s the girls were different so...
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    Should i call or email?

    And again you're right Gangster... The Girl texted that she had many "yes"matches, and was insecure about me and some off the other matched guys, and that she had to pick a couple. i have been flaked ... p.s. shall i call here on here b*lls**t behaviour..? or just nxt
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    Should i call or email?

    end of story... didn't got contact, even emailed her.. but no response.. i think its to late...other guys were before me.... so this is a lesson.. never wait more then 4 days..otherwise you will be forgotten by the girl.... so for me it is..... next
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    Should i call or email?

    OK i will call here tomorrow. but on the speed dating event we had a very good contact, when she spook with other guys she was looking at me, and she was constantly looking my way (even when i was talking to other girls). so i think my changes are good... she told me that we even had visit the...
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    Should i call or email?

    I think you're right Gangster of love.... i called her .. and see didn't answer the phone... i think see 's on a date with another guy this fridaynight.. well another lesson learned..
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