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What did you drink when out at bars that’s not alcohol?

I haven’t drank in about 45 days and I feel great. Also, you can still go to bars. Prior to 2023, I wasn’t drinking for a long time. Anything you saw me write regarding game in bars was dead sober. Pulled college students, no issue.

I certainly utilized porn and masturbation in college. But neither of those were as good as the real thing (which is why I went to the desperate measures I did to get/try to get laid) The fact my sex drive was at its peak back then certainly didn't help. Even though a lot of men would probably...

This is a common experience. A lot of men don't have a backup plan. The backup plan becomes porn & masturbation. That's not healthy. The porn & masturbation plan has become easier since the growth of high speed internet. Specific to college, all the dorms at my university had high speed...

Maybe I should elaborate. When I was in college, I was an absolute dog when it came to sex. Extremely desperate. Because I had no backup plan. Once I developed my backup plan, I'm no longer the pathetic animal I was 12 years ago (I know I'm not supposed to discuss my backup plan on here. So I...

Women end the majority of relationships. There are many well known stats that women are the ones who file for divorce to end marriages. In non-marital relationships, women end those more often than men end those. The gap isn't as large as women ending marriages though. Women are also usually...

I thought of a brilliant idea. While there's no way to fully take us back to the 80s, here's an idea where we could make some major strides in offsetting a woman's 2024 abundance: Outlaw Tinder, OnlyFans, and Instagram. That alone would help men to a massive degree (and for the best of both...

Applying for a job or a college is not an accomplishment, that's why I said you wouldn't know what true rejection feels like.

It's possible to get occasional low cost sex for a minimal indirect price for most middle of the bell curve men. The problem for a lot of men is that there's a lack of sustainability with trying to get low cost sex. You've been trying to operate like a top tier SMV man (aka 'Chad') and get low...

You paid with the time and effort required to post on Craig's List... You wouldn't have gotten what you desired, had you not expended the effort Which brings us back around to the central point: NOTHING in life comes to us "free of charge", even if that charge isn't monetary

I know you've explained before how a lot of so-called "free" sex is really paid for indirectly. As shocking as this might sound (for a guy with all my baggage), however, a lot of the "free" sex I've had really was 100% free. Here's where it gets even more shocking: Broads would drive to come...

I have a positive impression of Legacy West / Shops of Legacy (its older predecessor) on small sample sizes. Legacy West does seem to be drawing in some talent. There are approach opportunities there. The approach options can happen between the stores outdoors, inside of a store, and sometimes...

From ages 18-29 (a period that overlaps my time as a Phoenix area resident), I was a primarily nightlife approacher when I was single. When I say nightlife approacher, that's the combination of random off campus apartment complex parties while in college and going to bars once I turned 21. I...

5. You have an interesting vibe/personality that stands out in the sea of NPC's

Exactly. It's a looooooong f-cking drive to get to the ocean "The combination of dealing with a weak job market for a city of its size and women with bad attitudes isn't a pleasant combination in Phoenix" Therein lies my other objection to throwing up my tent in Phoenix. Culturally speaking...

Dallas is a mediocre place to live for a remote worker who moves here with 0 connections to the area. People who tend to move here with 0 connections to the area are people with bachelor's degrees + who move here for some sort of corporate job that requires an in-person presence at least some...

Getting to the ocean isn't that difficult when living in Phoenix. Many Phoenix area residents go to San Diego beaches in the warmer months. The same thing happens to a lesser extent with Los Angeles and Orange County coastal areas. San Diego seems to be the main beach destination for Phoenix...

That's an amazing deal for New York. A lot of men near your age are living with girlfriends/wives. That gets common for men 30-35. You might be able to get a mid-20s guy as a roommate. A gym bro type could be a good option for a roommate. You might be able to find a good roommate through a...

By NOT seeking one out, and instead committing to do what's required to TRULY live on your own... That means by yourself, until and if you decide to marry, or unless you need to take in a terminally ill relative for few months Every man comes to this crossroads, BPH... It's your turn now

Looking into some housing options and what's affordable. Right now I can't move too far away because my current job is my only income, and I'm not sure if I can count on my brother or one of my friends being available. The latter because he's living in New York paying less than $800/mo for...