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    Two observations TV and real life

    For those of you who have seen Landman, the main plot may be a little off based, however, the way the ex-wife behavior is scripted , and also the daughter of the landman, are relevant. I did see parallels with regular white girl behavior. Unfortunately, these are less than optimal behaviors...
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    Do men even care anymore?

    the second part of your response almost read like a man with a job, own place, not fat is entitled to have their pick in those places… which may be part of a self perpetuating cycle… it might be a misinterpretation on my part… The crude reality I see out there is that unless you come from...
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    How much freedom you give to your lady

    OP, what are your worries/fears? honest question. sometimes I’m almost wishing they go away with their friends so I have some time to focus on my own stuff. Also, “decent” girls don’t usually go dressing like slvts out of the blue, sure they might occasionally? I’d even say that if a girl...
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    Compliance vs initiation

    It seems to me, that some women believe they are initiating by just finding moments of intentional proximity.
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    Are Dating Apps really that bad right now

    Last week I saw a flyer about a singles mixer in the gym front desk, of all places. It’s a good omen, related to what is said above by Bingo. That, and the fact that for a woman that is reasonably attractive, the time spend in filtering among the hundreds of men in an app actually takes a toll...
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    How do you game girls who are naturally flirty/touchy?

    You kiss them.
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    The Confidence-Competence Loop: How to Build It If You Don’t “Naturally” Feel Confident First

    I appreciated that reference. I have to half agree with you on the second part. Ugly people do just fine on similar looks leagues, and it is possible (and actually pretty common) to go upward leagues proportionally to favorable combinations of Hair, Status, Money, Personality.
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    Lost girl after sex on 1st date. Buyer's Remorse, Auto Rejection, or Something Else?

    Let’s do the mental exercise: say you didn’t f her well enough. Would you want to be with someone whom you need to f real hard to make her change her opinion about you? my bias answer would be hell no. A woman that’s really attracted to you won’t measure you only on sex skills. Her blood would...
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    What is the expected success rate at college bars?

    For what is worth it. If the girl thinks you’re or look “creepy-ish” you’re done. If the girl thinks you’re attractive she’ll cut you some slack proportional to your attractiveness. Hence I second AA advice of becoming attractive. There’s plenty of material in SS to get going on that...
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    To attract women: be fun or be serious?

    To the original question. In my experience, better to be serious than fun. Better yet, you’re serious with pretty much everyone, but you show her your fun side, sometimes.
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    Approach in The Gym?

    I second Bingo’s advice. If I may add, wear shirts with cool logos/images fun socks etc and if a girl happens to tell you oh I like your shirt, do not lose the opportunity for conversation, example don’t just say thanks but say oh thanks, what exactly did you like about it? Smirk, then just be...
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    Getting Back Together

    Exceptional circumstances.
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    The Essential Role of Men in sex

    It’s possible to be in only one LTR and have lots of sex. Of course, if you choose to always do the same, you’re not gonna be learning much. I’d consider a man is ok in bed if he can make a woman *** repeatedly with at least 3/4 of these: words, fingers, tongue, and D. 4/4 is ideal. Then there...
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    How to make your dating life less dreadful

    I go to bars with dance floor once in a while. There’s definitely young people there but they all seem to come in groups. (All women, all men, or mix). I haven’t seen any men from outside a group successfully reach out to a woman in a way conducive to a date/etc. I have observed men in a men’s...
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    Article: Marriage rates are up, and divorce rates are down, new data shows

    This feels very Latin in the sense of all Latin languages. Happy wife happy marriage, they say, which can be interpreted in many ways. But how I see it is just about letting her pilot so she’s satisfied about her power in the relationship. With the non-explicit knowledge that when the man...
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