What do you ultimately want from this woman’s? The reason why some might say “meet other women” is because, as you’ve made clear, you only want FWB’s. In cases in which there is no serious investment, what else can one reasonably suggest?
Adding an emotional component to an FWB situation can be...
Would you be forgiving of someone who put you in a coma while mugging you? Like, would you awake from it and think, “That guy was just doing what he had to do?”
Perhaps some men want a women as a maid. I don’t.
So far you’ve challenged others on what they want, not all of which is valued by you.
What do you want from/with a woman (perhaps women)?
A chunk of desirable (subjective, personal term) women do want who we consider losers.
I cannot picture playing games with my wife considering the serious sh-t to take care of in a marriage: kids, dealing with in-laws and other family members, paying bills, unforeseen events (eg, my wife needed knee surgery in January and during her recovery I had a lot to take over), etc.
Fun...
Something quite serious for some “relationships” hasn’t been mentioned: having and raising children.
That’s a way to put it.
Do you think he’s “the one”?
How many “bf’s” have you had?
Travel is one example. One might counter this, “But you can travel alone,” which you can. Fortunately and unfortunately (depending how one looks at this), many of us aren’t made of stone, and don’t want to travel and attend events alone.
And I don’t agree with women being “the cherries on top”...
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