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That’s a way to look at it.

What do you ultimately want from this woman’s? The reason why some might say “meet other women” is because, as you’ve made clear, you only want FWB’s. In cases in which there is no serious investment, what else can one reasonably suggest? Adding an emotional component to an FWB situation can be...

Only point I disagree on.

Realistically speaking, the man will get caught.

No.

Would you be forgiving of someone who put you in a coma while mugging you? Like, would you awake from it and think, “That guy was just doing what he had to do?”

Are you alright with others doing likewise, with you on the receiving end? And I’m not just talking about lying.

Considering I’m not an idiot I think I’ll understand.

Perhaps some men want a women as a maid. I don’t. So far you’ve challenged others on what they want, not all of which is valued by you. What do you want from/with a woman (perhaps women)? A chunk of desirable (subjective, personal term) women do want who we consider losers.

I cannot picture playing games with my wife considering the serious sh-t to take care of in a marriage: kids, dealing with in-laws and other family members, paying bills, unforeseen events (eg, my wife needed knee surgery in January and during her recovery I had a lot to take over), etc. Fun...

Something quite serious for some “relationships” hasn’t been mentioned: having and raising children. That’s a way to put it. Do you think he’s “the one”? How many “bf’s” have you had?

Travel is one example. One might counter this, “But you can travel alone,” which you can. Fortunately and unfortunately (depending how one looks at this), many of us aren’t made of stone, and don’t want to travel and attend events alone. And I don’t agree with women being “the cherries on top”...

That’s not a relationship then.

Now we can get to you, if you don’t mind. Do you have any particular ambitions?

Yes, I’m sure there are men who are not especially talented and don’t come from rich families who cannot attain what they have ambitions for. It’s self evident in everyday life. I’m not sure why you made this personal and requested my own personal limitations. But I’ll take a stab at it. I was...

For Some are. That is, some are attracted to high-status or attractive older men. Generally they like a little older, but this is about “age gaps”. I’ve discussed Revenge of the Silver Fox several times. I assume such a woman would be very put off by his womanless status. I want all women...

Yes, unless they became obese. Some do. Everyone! Because it can get them sex, a husband, friends, status, fame, and money.

It is a cheat code. The ultimate cheat code is evil.

This will happen with many men in “improving themselves”. The fact is that now many men simply do not have the resources, upbringing, or physical and mental TALENT to get what they wish for. That’s not their fault or a bad thing.

Plenty of ordinary-looking men have women. But looks help enormously. Status and dangerousness trump all.